"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Which race has the biggest advantage in the dating game?

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Juan_Man

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Here is my take from top to bottom:

For guys

1. Whites (including Jews)
2. Hispanics and Native Americans are tied
3. Blacks
4. Arabs and Indians (South Asian Indians) are tied
5. Asians (not including South Asians)

For girls

1. Whites (including Jews)
2. Asians (not including South Asians)
3. Hispanics and Native Americans are tied
4. Arabs
5. Indians
6. Blacks

What is your take? This is not meant to be a racist thread.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There is no advantage for certain races or what not. Some people may have a prefered type but really there is none. People can totally take this as a racial spin.
 

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I think that hott girls > non hott girls. It doesnt really take a racial spin at all for me and my friends.
 

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I think this is just retarded...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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As PC as we wish our society was, I think that with race comes certain perceptions on physical attraction (partially influenced by the media), status (think asian fetish), and projected stereotypes. In the end, game is what matters most. But I still think that race can give one an advantage much like height, build, or how much money a person has. This has been discussed on this board before so I can't be any more racist than others here.
 

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an advantage in what way?

an ugly white guy or hispanic guy w poor skills is going to lose out to a good looking black or asian guy who's a DJ.
 

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Juan_Man said:
As PC as we wish our society was, I think that with race comes certain perceptions on physical attraction (partially influenced by the media), status (think asian fetish), and projected stereotypes. In the end, game is what matters most. But I still think that race can give one an advantage much like height, build, or how much money a person has. This has been discussed on this board before so I can't be any more racist than others here.
True ....

BUT

How the fvck does that answer the question that he asked ?

If your white ... say "White" , if your black ... say "Black", If your Mexican ... say "Mexican" .... Cuban ... Philipino, Asian, Greek, Arab, Canadian ....

No racism meant whatsoever, however, I dont care who you are, but be proud of who you are no matter what nationality you may be and voice it when someone asks this kind of question ....

My Answer: White for Guys and Girls
 

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I think it's a toss up between rich white and black guys. As far as the ladies, it's definiately the Latinas.
 

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flippinfreak said:
I think this is just retarded...

Ditto.

I know it's not a racist thread but come on. All men are the same. Men are either a PUA or an AFC or somewhere in between. Same for women. Closed
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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