"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Which One Of You Fvckers Did This?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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That one is far above my personal perversion level……
 

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Well as some of you guys might know I live in Florida, honestly I had to make my move I mean they were giving me some real good IOI's . They were both eye fuucking me and I just had to go for it. If I didn't take my shot @biggoal was gonna take his and he would have cucked me for sure.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Billtx49

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Well as some of you guys might know I live in Florida, honestly I had to make my move I mean they were giving me some real good IOI's . They were both eye fuucking me and I just had to go for it. If I didn't take my shot @biggoal was gonna take his and he would have cucked me for sure.
Lmao…
 

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LMAO
 

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Well as some of you guys might know I live in Florida, honestly I had to make my move I mean they were giving me some real good IOI's . They were both eye fuucking me and I just had to go for it. If I didn't take my shot @biggoal was gonna take his and he would have cucked me for sure.
I think @biggoal prefers the ones from the bargain bin so you were probably safe.
 

ubercat

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Come on guys don't take cheap shots on biggoal. We will all have to love speckly cougars one day. He just got there first
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Shrubber101

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What's the hb score for a woman that can tuck her titz into her waist band?
 

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@biggoal is here and that’s good enough.
 

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It's a shame they had to put down the innocent stuffed animals. They are the real victims here...
 

Who Dares Win

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Poor bastard all he had to say was that he considered himself a stuffed animal toy and thats how they express their sexuality, he could have even sue the police department for discrimination.
 

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I hope the stuffed animals aren’t too dramatized to testify against their attacker.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Black Widow Void

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Did sosuave open its doors to a woman's knitting circle?
I realize that women will resort to cattiness toward someone among their group, but men behaving the same toward one of the forum members?
While I may have my differences with biggoal, I'd rank those that engage in this form of cattiness as below his rank.
 

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@Black Widow Void it's just playful ball busting like I've done with my brothers and close friends, there is no ill will in it. If I truly disliked biggoal I would just ignore him, instead as frustrating as it is some times I give him advise. The other members also will bust other members balls no need to take it so seriously. There is a huge difference to men playfully busting each others balls and what women do. With men it is a way of bonding, what women do is actually to socially ostracize a women that they don't like usually a rival.
 

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@Black Widow Void it's just playful ball busting like I've done with my brothers and close friends, there is no ill will in it. If I truly disliked biggoal I would just ignore him, instead as frustrating as it is some times I give him advise. The other members also will bust other members balls no need to take it so seriously. There is a huge difference to men playfully busting each others balls and what women do. With men it is a way of bonding, what women do is actually to socially ostracize a women that they don't like usually a rival.
Precisely.
It's nothing we wouldn't say to him to his face.
That's the difference between male ball busting and female cattiness. It's good natured pizz taking. Cattiness is done behind each others backs.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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