"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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which one is better

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Piers Nivens

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Which is more attractive

-stern looking while talking, raising eyebrows and whatnot, and energetic etc


or

- relaxed eyebrows the entire time, lazy looking eyes, slightly closed and all casual



which do girls like more when we talk to them
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SmooveMooves

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There is no particular thing.

Develop a personality and mannerisms that fit your particular personality.

We can't tell you what fits you.

You guys need to stop searching for a magic potion solution.

Read up on the DJ Bible homie.
 
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Piers Nivens

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Yeah I know that man.

I was just asking which "look" is usually better, to be looking all casual and lazy eyed or serious and sterny with eyebrowa raised when talking
 
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How about adapting yourself to them?
 
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