"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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which one is better

Piers Nivens

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Which is more attractive

-stern looking while talking, raising eyebrows and whatnot, and energetic etc


or

- relaxed eyebrows the entire time, lazy looking eyes, slightly closed and all casual



which do girls like more when we talk to them
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SmooveMooves

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There is no particular thing.

Develop a personality and mannerisms that fit your particular personality.

We can't tell you what fits you.

You guys need to stop searching for a magic potion solution.

Read up on the DJ Bible homie.
 

Piers Nivens

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Yeah I know that man.

I was just asking which "look" is usually better, to be looking all casual and lazy eyed or serious and sterny with eyebrowa raised when talking
 

Cerwin Vega

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How about adapting yourself to them?
 
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