"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Which of these hairstyles would you go for?

Which hairstyle would you go for?

  • The hairstyle that girls like the most

    Votes: 2 25.0%
  • The hairstyle that makes you the happiest person

    Votes: 6 75.0%

  • Total voters
    8

Demystify

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I know most of you will tell me that the hairstyle that makes me the happiest person will be the one that gets me the most girls, but I've also been told by girls that it's an ugly look. Girls seem to like the shaggy hair on me while I myself like my head shaved. With a shaved head I like to workout more, eat healthy, and don't have to worry about my hair, despite not attracting girls with it I think it makes me a more positive person. But with the shaggy hair I'll attract girls, but I personally don't like it and am curious as to which of the two options you guys would choose.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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up to a couple weeks ago... i used to do it for both... now i do it strictly for comfort (so i voted for what makes me happiest the most).

girls care little about your hair. if they care about looks, face matters a million times more than your hair.

its summer here so i buzzed my hair with a buzzed mohawk... short, short mohawk. mainly because i have the asian fro. so when it grows out.. my sides and top will be in proportion.

in no way is it a "faux hawk"... i hate that term.

i used to have it like this, http://www.connectionsmt.com/gallery/gal_teddy_newlarge.jpg
 

Demystify

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Michele said:
girls care little about your hair. if they care about looks, face matters a million times more than your hair.
Yes but certain hairstyles make your face look better and the shaggy hair might be what makes my face look better and thus attracts girls
 
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