“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Which nationalities make the best wives?

apprentice

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I am currently going through a break up with an South East Asian woman. I thought given her culture (I am from the same culture but raised in a Western country) she would have shared traits of our culture (traditional, mild mannered, nurturing etc) but I seem to have found an exception. Just wondering if you guys have any nationalities you would recomment or I should stay away from when looking for a potential wife? Thanks.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Who Dares Win

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As long as you avoid any country which has an official and respected feminist party/association you should be fine.

Check also divorce stats for that relative one, they are a benchmark of feminine health.
 

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apprentice said:
I am currently going through a break up with an South East Asian woman. I thought given her culture (I am from the same culture but raised in a Western country) she would have shared traits of our culture (traditional, mild mannered, nurturing etc) but I seem to have found an exception. Just wondering if you guys have any nationalities you would recomment or I should stay away from when looking for a potential wife? Thanks.
I recommend keeping your eyes and ears open, instead of gaming based on expectations.

You never know who will have the qualities you want. Culture defines how a person goes about daily life and practical problems, but it doesn't turn someone crazy into someone reasonable.

Bottom line - culturally you can look for someone who values family, loyalty, discipline, education. That kind of thing.

BUT - you can't depend on culture to make a person smart, reasonable, independent, or forgiving.

I'm Khmer, born and raised in the USA, btw. What are you?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You can't predict how someone will act in a given situation just based on what country they're from.
 

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Leporello said:
You can't predict how someone will act in a given situation just based on what country they're from.
In certain situations you can - what they might choose to wear on a daily basis, what kind of foods they like, etc.

It's just that none of those culturally influenced choices mean jack sh*t in dating.
 

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I know. Filipinas, for as long as she is not yet a US citizen (5 years). then watch out, but there is no warranty on US women, either.
 

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Nationality? How many of you are even spending half of the year in another country? None of you are! So this question is silly. When you have spent more than 6 months in another country dating local girls who speak little English you can answer this question. Dating immigrants doesn't count. Immigrants are more Anglo than my always tanned California born azz will ever be.

Since I fit the requirements I will say without question Ukrainians. Classically beautiful, very young, hyper-feminine, and head strong when it comes to taking care of you. They are everything I never saw in California growing up. In saying that, EVERY swarthy Mediterranean (from France to Beirut) seems to be in Ukraine these days. Sitting around with their s---- tans and dark sunglasses thirty minutes after the sun has gone down. Even Vk.com is watered down these days with thousands of Giulio Matterazzi's and Jean-Luc Hadid's. It use to be I only had to worry about Turks. God help me once Euro 2012 is over. Every Sven and Jan will start invading Maidan on the weekends.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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BigJimbo said:
Since I fit the requirements I will say without question Ukrainians.
Dyakuya, BigJimbo. How did we all know you'd mention Ukrainians.

They are smoking hot, though.
 

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Midwestern girls make really good wives if you can find a hot one. I've lived both here and in the Northeast and feminism doesn't even exist here. Girls here genuinely want to get married early and have babies.
 

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Darth said:
Midwestern girls make really good wives if you can find a hot one. I've lived both here and in the Northeast and feminism doesn't even exist here. Girls here genuinely want to get married early and have babies.
Not in my case. Last two gf's were unappreciative "i don't know what I want" upper midwesterners
 

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Honestly, southern girls make the best, most devoted wives. They tend to be more down to earth. Chicks from the northeast (especially NY) are just too prissy.

Always wanted to date a canadian girl personally, get a feel for what they're like
 
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Stay away from certain British women known as the Geezerbird. The Geezerbird is usually a girl who dresses to the nines, but has the toilet humour of a man and likes to down pints of beer, likes to get tanked off her titties on vodka shots and you'll usually see them vomiting in the streets, urinating in the streets too or having a massive fight with some other girl.

Our chicks are classy man, why go for a nice Thai woman who can cook your meals and sucky, sucky for ten dollah when you can have a nice British girl who can drink more beer than you?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dont know about other countries but ive had a LTR with a girl from the south (Louisiana) and another LTR with a girl here in NY. The Southern girl was sweet and all but drove me crazy! but wanted to be with me and stay with me. she was SOO attached to me, i couldnt take it anymore. The girl here in NY was sweet nice but then turned out to be satan. so i dunno...
 

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If you're considering marriage, you haven't learned anything here.

The poorer the country the woman comes from, the less she will see you as a human being and the more she will see you as a wallet.
 

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Thanks for the replies guys. I know I am generalizing, but nationalities do have certain traits in common but then you have to delve deeper to get to know the person. I live in Australia but am from a mixed Asian/Western background. I don't plan to play the field all my life, I do want to settle down eventually with the right person once the novelty of playing the field wears off. But what I seem to have gotten so far from some of the responses I have had is that the less Western the better (with the exception of the gold digging types) and country towns are a better bet.
 

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rum said:
Honestly, southern girls make the best, most devoted wives. They tend to be more down to earth.

I don't have any experience with southern girls, but they have to be better than northern.

Chicks from the northeast (especially NY) are just too prissy.

Northeast women should be avoided like the plague. I can vouch for this because I live there.

Always wanted to date a canadian girl personally, get a feel for what they're like
I like Canadian girls. Most are laid back and friendly. As an American, you WILL have to listen to her mandatory rant about Georrge Bushh (even if you didn't vote for him), but that's true with any foreign woman lol. But after that
Canadian girls are quite likeable. The only snobby ones I met were from British Columbia.

Back to the US, I would say Midwestern is my favorite.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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