"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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squelchy451

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Hi.

Im thinking about taking a girl to a movie.
Theres this new shopping mall thats opening this week so its kinda cool.

What movie should I see with her?
Lots of ppl say slumdog millionaire is a good movie but is it a good date movie?

IF u go see a movie with a girl does it doesnt have to be a chick flick, right?


Thank you~
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If this is a first date, go somewhere else. Why? Because you can't really have a conversation with her and build more comfort with each other.

If you guys have gone out before, this is a different situation.

She won't care. Just the fact that she's going out with you again proves that she likes you, so f*cking kiss her at some point.

As for the movie, anything works. I would personally go to something that I would enjoy.

Don't over analyze. It's just a movie. Look 'em up on IMDB and go to the one that seems the most interesting.
 

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Scary movies are pretty good date movies because if they get scared they want to get closer to you or grab onto you.
 

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thekcguyme said:
Scary movies are pretty good date movies because if they get scared they want to get closer to you or grab onto you.
Very true, but if you're anything like me, you'll be laughing at how badly done most horror movies are done these days lol, with their horrible plots and predictable shock points. Silence of The Lambs FTW
 
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I speak from my own experience and this includes crash and burns.

Show her a movie that is light and funny. A chick flick, romantic comedy, basically the type of movies that you hate viewing. Trust me.

I've had my first french kiss with a girl after seeing a chick flick. Anything that builds a romantic mood is a good thing.

I've been virtually dumped, or have experienced nasty crash and burns after seeing action movies with a girl. While this may not be the case with every girl -- I'd put a 75% probability that you'll fare well if you follow this direction. These movies usually put in a wrong frame for romance.

It's better to watch a movie she likes, or will set the proper mental frame, than watch a movie you want. Save the movie you want to watch for your guy friends, or watch it solo. If you really don't like chick flicks or light and funny movies -- then stay the heck away from the movie theatre unless it's just friendship or you are just going to see her that one time and don't care if you don't see her again.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Vice said:
If this is a first date, go somewhere else. Why? Because you can't really have a conversation with her and build more comfort with each other.

If you guys have gone out before, this is a different situation.

She won't care. Just the fact that she's going out with you again proves that she likes you, so f*cking kiss her at some point.

As for the movie, anything works. I would personally go to something that I would enjoy.

Don't over analyze. It's just a movie. Look 'em up on IMDB and go to the one that seems the most interesting.

the man is right! You said 'a girl', so it doesnt sound like you dated her before, in which case, DONT see a movie! BAD BAD IDEA. You need to build some sort of interest level as well as comfort before you go see a movie, because otherwise you'll probs spend most of the time during the movie looking for a chance to pull a move, which makes for an awkward atmosphere.

Go for a coffee or something. Just make it short, like an hour or 2, that way you should have plenty to talk about and you can make yourself look busy and therefore in demand, also showing your life doesnt revolve around women.
 
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