“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Which move to take with this?

CCFCmid

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Just called a girl I'm gaming for a few weeks now, been out 3 times, had a quick chat c+f, told her my plans for tonight had fallen through and was calling to let her know I fancied hanging out with her tonight. She tells me can't she's working (waitress), but only til 9, so if I wanna stop by the pub for a drink after work, that'd be good. I said I dunno, the alternate offer is a bbq at a friends, but kept the c+f going giving a reason I don't fancy it cos I don't wanna drink again this weekend. She knows I went out last weekend with university friends for first time since graduating, so knows it was a big nite. She joked, 'haha not after last week". I said I'll let ya know.... she said yeah just send me a txt.

So where do I play it from here? Go for the drink? or go to the bbq, if so, do I txt or not? Normally I would just do what I felt most like doing, but i'm pretty 50/50 at the moment.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Have you banged her yet? I'll assume not (though if I'm wrong I apologize). What time's the BBQ at? I assume it's earlier in the evening, right? If that's the case can't you do both. Go to the BBQ for a bit, peace out when she's done work and go meet up with her. Get some booze into her, get her emotions going, get her back to your place and seal the deal.
 
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