"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Which move to take with this?

CCFCmid

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Just called a girl I'm gaming for a few weeks now, been out 3 times, had a quick chat c+f, told her my plans for tonight had fallen through and was calling to let her know I fancied hanging out with her tonight. She tells me can't she's working (waitress), but only til 9, so if I wanna stop by the pub for a drink after work, that'd be good. I said I dunno, the alternate offer is a bbq at a friends, but kept the c+f going giving a reason I don't fancy it cos I don't wanna drink again this weekend. She knows I went out last weekend with university friends for first time since graduating, so knows it was a big nite. She joked, 'haha not after last week". I said I'll let ya know.... she said yeah just send me a txt.

So where do I play it from here? Go for the drink? or go to the bbq, if so, do I txt or not? Normally I would just do what I felt most like doing, but i'm pretty 50/50 at the moment.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Scion

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Have you banged her yet? I'll assume not (though if I'm wrong I apologize). What time's the BBQ at? I assume it's earlier in the evening, right? If that's the case can't you do both. Go to the BBQ for a bit, peace out when she's done work and go meet up with her. Get some booze into her, get her emotions going, get her back to your place and seal the deal.
 
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