"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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which method would be better?

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there's a hot latin girl i have as a target on campus and i see her nearly everyday studying in the same cafe at dorms and last semester i knew she had a bf cos i'd always see them together.

i was thinking of trying a new tactic that i read in the dj bible in anti-dump machines section where it states u show your value on your 1st meeting then ignore her completely. this will make her feel like shes lost something and will pursue u.

however it does not state whether i should try to number close on the 1st meeting, i was thinking of showing my value, negging her a bit then ignoring her until she comes up to talk to me again, make her work a bit to get my attention.

would she resent me if i show my interest on the 1st encounter but dont get her number/ask her out then ignore her?

given shes hot and much coveted i would hope this is what being a challenge for her would bring.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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On the other hand you could have lost everything that you've developed in your first meeting by ignoring her. Only way she will be chasing you after ignoring her is if you gave her a super bomb first impression, but only the most skilled of DJ's can pull that off.
 
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