"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Which is the BEST personality trait for DJ?

Choose the best DJ personality quality

  • honesty/frankness

    Votes: 2 22.2%

  • Pride

    Votes: 1 11.1%

  • passionate about something in life

    Votes: 4 44.4%

  • sense of humor

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • bravery

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • carefree

    Votes: 2 22.2%

  • Uncompromising

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Total voters
    9
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DJHoolahoop

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you know a lot of these work with one another and would be hard pressed to function well on its own... but being passionate about or directed in life is probably the best dj personality quality. Because its what gets men up and going towards a goal which then brings out the best in everything else they do.
 
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DJ4Life said:
reallyfreakinglost you forgot to put on the "all the above" option
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I realize these are all important but I did not include "all the above" because I want to know what you guys think is the most important. They all are significant but I'm curious as to which you people value the most. My apologies for not including the "all of the above", but you have to understand why I didn't do that.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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:crazy: i say carefree because in order for you to be a DJ that means you don't give a ****...you really don't!!! with carefreeness that means you have bravery...he doesn't care to be rejected there's more women...he doesn't call you the next day...he calls when he feels like it..when he's having sex he leaves after he bust the nut... CAREFREE!! :up: :crazy:
 
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