Yea which is more important. Lets take an environment where social proof/status is big - school (HS or college). Which guy would have more success. A really good looking/muscular/whatever guy that got chicks checking him out, with no social status at all - known as a loner maybe, only a few friends, not life of party kind of guy, maybe quiet at times. Or a ugly guy that doesn't really ever turn heads, girls don't notice him, just by looks, but with a alot of friends, life of the party kind of guy, well known, and social.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Which is more important looks or social status?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Remulak
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The guy with social status to answer your question, women are attracted to good-looking men because of the social status they assume you bring with it. Many women will drop a good-looking guy once they find out he has no social status or anything else to offer.
It depends on the culture. Looks are only important at the start but if you are a loser, you can forget about keeping a 10. The key here is that good looking people usually have every other attribute women find attractive. Confidence, social status, ****y, playful etc... except for maybe witty and intelligence.
Social Status is very important to women but its harder to demonstrate. If you cannot create attraction (playful teasing, chemistry connection, manlyness), then Social Status is worthless. Life of the party can quickly be Clown of the party. However, social proof will make her interested in who you are and what you bring to the table. You just have to make sure you keep her interested.
So in a nutshell, if you are a good looking guy it is much easier. I feel its more important if you are born with it. If you are not a good looking guy but have social proof, then you have your work cut out for you. Becoming well groomed, playful and acting confidently will work wonders for you but you have much more work than the good looking guy who most likely naturally gained these attributes.
Social Status is very important to women but its harder to demonstrate. If you cannot create attraction (playful teasing, chemistry connection, manlyness), then Social Status is worthless. Life of the party can quickly be Clown of the party. However, social proof will make her interested in who you are and what you bring to the table. You just have to make sure you keep her interested.
So in a nutshell, if you are a good looking guy it is much easier. I feel its more important if you are born with it. If you are not a good looking guy but have social proof, then you have your work cut out for you. Becoming well groomed, playful and acting confidently will work wonders for you but you have much more work than the good looking guy who most likely naturally gained these attributes.
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Monkey
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Looks.
Social status means nothing.
Social status means nothing.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Monkey
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If you don't pass her looks criteria, all the 'social status' in the world means absolutely nothing.
It depends on what kind of social status you're on about. If you're on about being in some super cool social group with a ton of hot girls then yes it's a big advantage. But most people just have some regular friends and go out sometimes, so therefore looks/game etc. tend to matter more. It also depends on the uni you go to etc. If there are frats and whatnot and american-pie style partying then you'd probably be expected to take part, else it's anti-social = loser. But at an academic uni like Harvard/MIT etc. there aren't really 'it crowds' and 'super cool cliques' so it's different.
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WesCottII
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I think in HS, looks and social status ARE mutually exclusive. You don't tend to find one, without the other.
Outside......I'd say social status.
Outside......I'd say social status.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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