"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Which is more effective?

Fatal Jay

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When a lady who constantly ignores your call or text, then you go nc on her and a few days or weeks later she calls or text you which of the three is more effective on the woman's psyche.

1.tell her to literally "fu@k off"

2.ignore her call or text

3.pick up the phone and bang her later that night, and keep her as a fb?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Victory Unlimited

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[Fatal Jay]
When a lady who constantly ignores your call or text, then you go nc on her and a few days or weeks later she calls or text you which of the three is more effective on the woman's psyche.
First and foremost, your focus should be on doing what's in your best interest----NOT necessarily on how what you do will effect someone's psyche.


  • Choose this option if she's malevolent and detrimental to your mental, physical, or emotional well-being -
    1.tell her to literally "fu@k off"
  • Choose this option if you've successfully replaced her with a woman who's ACTUALLY interested in you -
    2.ignore her call or text
  • Choose this option if you find that there's an actual chance that this woman really does have a small amount of attraction for you -
    3.pick up the phone and bang her later that night, and keep her as a fb?

However, I gotta tell you: Most women who put you on their "ignore list", usually do so because they already think that they have better options than you.

Always protect your heart, soldier.


V.U.
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If she's constantly ignored you (should not be constant anyway - shouldnt be more than twice) and you've gone NC, then suddenly she has time for you, to keep you in orbit - then ignore, move on. She's not interested, so why should you be? Just because she's pretty? Meh - looks don't mean shiit.
 

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I'd immediately begin flirting, almost to the point of being rude. If you get some rapport going, immediately organise to meet up.
I mean you should hit her up by the third message.
If she doesn't come across, never interact with her again.
 

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Great advice VU, thank you...:cool:
Victory Unlimited said:
[Fatal Jay]

First and foremost, your focus should be on doing what's in your best interest----NOT necessarily on how what you do will effect someone's psyche.


  • Choose this option if she's malevolent and detrimental to your mental, physical, or emotional well-being -
  • Choose this option if you've successfully replaced her with a woman who's ACTUALLY interested in you -
  • Choose this option if you find that there's an actual chance that this woman really does have a small amount of attraction for you -

However, I gotta tell you: Most women who put you on their "ignore list", usually do so because they already think that they have better options than you.

Always protect your heart, soldier.


V.U.
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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