“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Which is easier? Get a woman back to your own place, or to her place?

Initially in a new relationship, which have you had more success with?

  • Go to my place more often.

    Votes: 12 60.0%
  • Go to her place more often.

    Votes: 5 25.0%
  • About the same.

    Votes: 2 10.0%
  • I haven't tried to take her to my place or go to hers recently.

    Votes: 1 5.0%

  • Total voters
    20

Abbott

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So...which is easier to "pull off?" I'd prefer to go to their place, since my place is frankly a bit of a rathole (after my lease has ended I'm definately not staying here again).

Also, could I keep this up (not having them over to my place) for any significant period of time? Next year I *might* be stuck living with my parents so of course I couldn't be having them go to my parents' house. With any luck I'll get a nice apartment but I don't know if I will. I don't want to put "hitting on" women on hold, but I think my rathole place might cause women to reconsider and ditch me.

I'm talking about college age (19-27) white (not racism, but that's all I am attracted to) women here.

Ben
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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gotta get your own pad....
 

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Originally posted by myfriendblu
gotta get your own pad....
For now I do...but it's kind of low quality. The building isn't very well kept up, and there isn't even any air conditioning so in the summers it's not that pleasant. I'm sure you can see why I wouldn't want to bring a woman back to that?

That's why I asked my original question.

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You've NEVER been attracted to a non-white?

If you are ONLY attracted to whites there is more to it than just natural attraction...
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Re: You've NEVER been attracted to a non-white?

Not really.

Originally posted by Who is John Galt?
If you are ONLY attracted to whites there is more to it than just natural attraction...
Oh no? Then what do you think it is?
 
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