"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Which girls do I invite when throwing a party?

PumpingIron13

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Party tomorrow!! What girls do I invite!

Obviously hot ones...but the real question I'm asking right now is my buds and I
are throwing a rager tomorrow in our apartment and we'll probly invite a lot of hot chicks we know...the question is should I invite girls Ive hooked up with (made out, banged, etc.) if I may want to go the distance with one or two of em who say I only made out with, or was about to get action but something happened. By inviting a bunch of these girls who already have interest in me would that not be a excellent tool for switching on the pre selection switches in other girls at my pad who I may find more attractive?

I wanna invite them all but is there something I should look out for in particular? The reason I ask this is because I usually handle myself alright at another persons party but Im not the one inviting ppl in that situation...now Im inviting to my house so what do you fellas think?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Invite girls you fvcked, hot girls, sluts, and whoever else. Whoever you want to invite should be fine.

But, since your having a apartment party. Becareful your neighbors don't complain and call the cops.
 

PumpingIron13

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nice as of now they are all coming, ****ed, not ****ed, possibly ****ed, excuse my language. So many hotties are confirmed..my bud ended up not having a test tonight so we tried to push the party a day earlier but didnt get too many ppl cuz it was late but alot of hotter chicks that i called were super excited to make it tomorrow... Ill let you fellas know how it goes
 
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