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Which Do You Guys Find Easier/More Success?

MrJack

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Was thinking about this the other day.

Which do you guys find easier/had more success with overall in terms of nightlife?

1. Club Scene: Hoes dancing in groups everywhere, the odd few hoes by themselves at the time for whatever reason, loud ass music, hard to talk clearly.

2. Bars: Hoes either talking in groups or sometimes by themselves for whatever reason, music but not too loud, easy to talk and understand clearly.

Reason I ask this is because I’ve had mixed results with both and I know you can’t win em all but just curious what most others like to do and generally have the most success in which environment?

In clubs sometimes I find it easier by just being high energy as soon as you walk in and abiding by the 3 second rule of approaching a woman by just grabbing her hand put on a confident smile and start dancing with her. I really only do this to the ones by themselves or at most 2 girls by themselves and is best when I have a wingman to take the other girl.

But on the other hand sometimes I get the “no” face and they pull their hand away and turn away. It’s starting to hurt the ego less and less but it’s still like “wtf” sometimes lol.

In bars I never really get the go away look as much in comparison and I just go up to them and start a conversation. Sometimes I eventually get blown out due to some still honing my game but sometimes it all goes well.

Superficial rating of myself is a 7.5 right now because I’ve slacked in the gym. When I get back to my true form I used to be, I consider myself an 8 because I fill out my clothes better and have slightly better body language than when I’m skinnier.

(I feel like those details matter a little more in club game moreso than the bar but obviously still important in each setting)

So yea what do you guys like?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Usually for me it’s bars, but the hottest hoes go to clubs.

In vegas I always choose clubs over bars. There, the people at bars are 40 year old people who smoke all the time. The dayclubs and nightclubs are filled with HB 9 and even if I get blown out I always have a good time cause I’m so outcome independent when I’m drunk
 

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I found a happy medium in rooftop-type lounges/nightclubs. They usually have an outdoor deck area where you can enjoy having drinks and interact with people like you would in a bar, but it's all nightclub type people.
Good choice. There is this rooftop bar in Fort Lauderdale that I go to and it is so incredibly easy to pull there
 

Von

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Was thinking about this the other day.

Which do you guys find easier/had more success with overall in terms of nightlife?

1. Club Scene: Hoes dancing in groups everywhere, the odd few hoes by themselves at the time for whatever reason, loud ass music, hard to talk clearly.

2. Bars: Hoes either talking in groups or sometimes by themselves for whatever reason, music but not too loud, easy to talk and understand clearly.

Reason I ask this is because I’ve had mixed results with both and I know you can’t win em all but just curious what most others like to do and generally have the most success in which environment?

In clubs sometimes I find it easier by just being high energy as soon as you walk in and abiding by the 3 second rule of approaching a woman by just grabbing her hand put on a confident smile and start dancing with her. I really only do this to the ones by themselves or at most 2 girls by themselves and is best when I have a wingman to take the other girl.

But on the other hand sometimes I get the “no” face and they pull their hand away and turn away. It’s starting to hurt the ego less and less but it’s still like “wtf” sometimes lol.

In bars I never really get the go away look as much in comparison and I just go up to them and start a conversation. Sometimes I eventually get blown out due to some still honing my game but sometimes it all goes well.

Superficial rating of myself is a 7.5 right now because I’ve slacked in the gym. When I get back to my true form I used to be, I consider myself an 8 because I fill out my clothes better and have slightly better body language than when I’m skinnier.

(I feel like those details matter a little more in club game moreso than the bar but obviously still important in each setting)

So yea what do you guys like?
I did Clubs from 18 to 21. Never pulled, nor did I have any experience back in the days. Total AFC and uninterested. This era of my life was all about becoming "better, extroverted, social" compared to my loner introverted high school life.

I didn't club since 22, but even back than... Loud Music was total turn off... too loud to talk, no interest in chick's + was shy. Always had glasses and fat belly.

Since 22 to 28... much more in shape, extroverted, easy to open, still a bit introverted (dont have much close friends) but do have a big network and people know me wherever I go. I've killed the "weird vibe" for the mysterious/aloof.

Lounge/Bar/SpeakEasy/Coffee/Park/Dance school... anywhere there is background music, you can talk, socialize... I pull more/get numbers.. Always preferred that. Also, they tend to have more people my age 29. So easier to blend.

My favourite are boardwalk/by the water/rooftop location... they give a perfect spot to isolate, escalate while making the woman feel safe and within her group influence (cause you still inside the lounge), also they do have lower music the further you are from the band/music system.. So you can choose the volume lol.

These place, usually have suits/dress dresscode. I pull more where there is "business/classy" attire
 

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I did Clubs from 18 to 21. Never pulled, nor did I have any experience back in the days. Total AFC and uninterested. This era of my life was all about becoming "better, extroverted, social" compared to my loner introverted high school life.


Not doing it right kuz.

You note you hit a peakkkkkk with a chick in the night. Bar or club. After that peakkkkkk, its downhill. Her ex will come. Her gayyyy friend, a chode, her friend is kicked out, and any number of things.

You hit that peakkkkkk, you tell her, "time to go." Take her by the hand and lead her out of the bar or club.

99% success rate after leading her off the property.

I didn't club since 22, but even back than... Loud Music was total turn off... too loud to talk, no interest in chick's + was shy. Always had glasses and fat belly.

Since 22 to 28... much more in shape, extroverted, easy to open, still a bit introverted (dont have much close friends) but do have a big network and people know me wherever I go. I've killed the "weird vibe" for the mysterious/aloof.

Lounge/Bar/SpeakEasy/Coffee/Park/Dance school... anywhere there is background music, you can talk, socialize... I pull more/get numbers.. Always preferred that. Also, they tend to have more people my age 29. So easier to blend.

My favourite are boardwalk/by the water/rooftop location... they give a perfect spot to isolate, escalate while making the woman feel safe and within her group influence (cause you still inside the lounge), also they do have lower music the further you are from the band/music system.. So you can choose the volume lol.

These place, usually have suits/dress dresscode. I pull more where there is "business/classy" attire
An ideal route is to adopt the mindset, its always "game time" the moment you get out of bed.

Think unleashed Jet Li collars off. The diff being you are beating up the *****.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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