Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Which do I choose?

green69

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A good buddy of mine (who has been out of town for a few months) is back today, and I was gonna go out with him and another friend of mine.

As that was being vaguely planned (nothing confirmed yet on either sides) this girl from work who I have been hanging out with recently wants me to go to the bar with her friend (who I am also friends with). Both of these girls are cute, I wouldn't mind hooking up or fooling around but nothing more.

Anyways...my dilemma is that I really wanna go out with my 2 buddies who I haven't seen in a long time. Plus...the downtown area will be very busy because of an event going on right now and it will be a b*tch to go downtown to a bar w/ the 2 girls.

So who should I go out with? I don't really wanna say no to the two girls from work...cuz of course it will be a fun night but at the same time it will be very hard to get downtown, and I've just started hanging out with them the past few weeks and I don't wanna give the impression like I am blowing them off. But at the same time I'd really like to see my 2 buddies and go out and do something.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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WC2

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The bar is a place to find chicks, not to bring chicks.

Go out with your friends, and tell this girl the truth. Tell her where you'll probably be and if they want to stop by they can, if not then whatever. A vague club date never takes precedent a night on the town with your boys, in which you have a very good chance of picking some girls up.

Out of curiosity, what city?
 

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Surely you can figure out how to do two things in one night.
 

Ace of Flames

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Maybe you could blend the 2 groups together. Your 2 friends lookin' for girls? You just so happen to have brought 2 girls along with you. How convienent.
 
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