"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Which DHV's Works best for you?

Bratt2230

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Which kind of DHV, do you guys find the best?

I would like to try some new ways of doing it
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bratt2230

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The two answers i have gotten so far?

Where do you guys sarge? seriously, you cannot play piano in a club? and telling that you are from the states - not to be rude - but people in Europe would not take that as a DHV. Perhaps it would raise their IL a bit.
 

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Petari said:
Which kind of DHV, do you guys find the best?

Actually being higher value
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bratt2230

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I Guess DHV is not Used in DJ context ?

And NO! i am not talking about running around doing MAGIC **** at bars, that is just not me.
 

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Petari said:
The two answers i have gotten so far?

Where do you guys sarge? seriously, you cannot play piano in a club? and telling that you are from the states - not to be rude - but people in Europe would not take that as a DHV. Perhaps it would raise their IL a bit.
I don't use my piano skillz specifically, but when a girl does hear it she comes over and sits beside me like "wow :)", think Lucy sitting on Schroeders piano :crackup: but actually having said that, some bars do have pianos, not clubs, but still...
 

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Or yeah they do, i just use bars for both bars and clubs hehe.

But DHV is just something i have never been good at.. The same with day 2's ..
 

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Bar/Club scenerio: Banter with bartenders/barmaids, general club officials.. Be seen befriending other alpha males. Chicks dig a mysterious guy with tonnes of social proof. Works for me.
 

zekko

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I probably DHV mainly through the way I carry myself:
Eye contact, smile, be friendly, dress well, good body language.
If you are confident and self assured, people will generally assume you have a reason to be.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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saber

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a small sausage stuffed in your pants. add a string and some duct tape and you can make it move.lol
 
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man I have a small sausage :(
I got so ****ing sad when I ****ed my first woman :(
but the second one came on it so I guess it cancels it :)
**** size don't matter if you have a small sausage :up:
 
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