Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Which dating sites still allow a subject line in a message?

jnMissouri

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I was doing pretty good on plentyoffish when they still had that. It allowed me to use game to stand out from the crowd. I've had some success with it since they did away with it but it's much harder without that subject line now. All the messages just have the same subject line so you don't stand out unless you're Brad Pitt.

I just tried OKCupid and they seem to be the same, except they have the whole Tinder like/pass thing going on. I'm pretty sure the messages there also have no subject line.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MoreThanSmooth

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OKCupid is total balls now, because they've changed it so you can only message a woman if she's already "liked" you. Since 10% of women even use the Like function, and they only use it for the top 0.01% of men, that pretty much means you can't even message people anymore full stop.

I've had maybe two "Likes" since they did this 2 months ago, and neither chick even bothered responding anyway.

PoF is by far the best free site in my experience, just keep your message short and stick the cool bit in the first line, usually does the job. You'll probs get a profile view and then they won't bother replying though >_>
 
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