"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Which dating sites still allow a subject line in a message?

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jnMissouri

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I was doing pretty good on plentyoffish when they still had that. It allowed me to use game to stand out from the crowd. I've had some success with it since they did away with it but it's much harder without that subject line now. All the messages just have the same subject line so you don't stand out unless you're Brad Pitt.

I just tried OKCupid and they seem to be the same, except they have the whole Tinder like/pass thing going on. I'm pretty sure the messages there also have no subject line.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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OKCupid is total balls now, because they've changed it so you can only message a woman if she's already "liked" you. Since 10% of women even use the Like function, and they only use it for the top 0.01% of men, that pretty much means you can't even message people anymore full stop.

I've had maybe two "Likes" since they did this 2 months ago, and neither chick even bothered responding anyway.

PoF is by far the best free site in my experience, just keep your message short and stick the cool bit in the first line, usually does the job. You'll probs get a profile view and then they won't bother replying though >_>
 
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