"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Which conversation topics work best for you? (No pickup lines or simple greetings)
- Thread starter lazikia
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
AlexTheGreat
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My conversations are very situational so "topics" in particular don't matter since you just go with the flow.
On_the_Top
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Do have have the social skills to hold a decent and clear conversation with anyone I meet?
That being said; does the person whom you are speaking with have the same ability?
If not either practice your social skills or move on...
GDOA
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daygameguy
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
This simple tip saved me more times then I can count. It's one of the ONLY tips I remind myself, the rest of the convo goes naturally. If the convo is going bad for you, don't stress! Just think about this, put more enthusiasm in your words, you CAN'T go wrong with this one!
The main thing I focus on my conversations is to create a vibe of course. But the most interresting topic for other people is....... other people!
If you have an good eye, LOOK for things in their personality that even they didn't know of! xDSo fun for me. Always gets me laughing. I personally LOVE this, and they love it too of course. Funny to see their reactions.
I can't think of a good example, you have to figure it out yourself. I don't know if I could figure it out if I didn't saw it myself in actions, well!
The point would be to get an interresting topic of the most common things, you know? Then I start saying stuff like: So cmon, tell me something interresting you did last night, so I can see what kind of person you are.
Heck, even I don't exactly know how I get going, but it's so frikin easy. I don't know if you could pull it off if you're not happy yourself. As I am extremey happy with my persona, I always look at other people the same way, you just need to get in that mood.