"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Which condom feels the best?

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me and my chick tried out a trojan naturalamb skin condom this morning... its kinda weird i must say; didnt really live up to expectations. I honestly get better sensation with the kimono micothin large on. She agreed that it was weird. Definiteley not worth the 400% price premium!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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In light of a recent thread, I would like to start one for everyone to give their opinions on what condoms they prefer.

Also, if anyone has had, or knows of, experiences with condom brands that are defective or uncomfortable , this would be the perfect place to post it!

I'll begin:

The only condom I have ever used that broke was a lifestyles. I've heard similar stories from friends of mine as well.

I find durex condoms just don't provide the sensation that trojan do.

Therefore, I will have to say that trojan are my favorite.
 

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I tear a deep pocket into a Brillo pad and use that.


Actually, Lifestyle "Tuxedo" condoms are crap. I can recall 3 breaking on me, so now I stay away from the entire Lifestyle line, preferring instead Trojan Ultra thin w/ spermicide or Trojan Magnums... problem with Magnums is the smell of the condom itself. However, none have broken so it's all good.
 

DJDamage

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Originally posted by diablo
Trojan Magnums... problem with Magnums is the smell of the condom itself. However, none have broken so it's all good. [/B]
Shameless promotion of the size of your manhood. :crackup:

Curious to know how do you know when you need a large size condom as oppose to a regular size?
 

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**** life styles i hate them. i had to get two day after pills for this girl. damn it cost me nearly 100 bucks. Trojans are the best i think, so far they have been good to me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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diablo

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Originally posted by DJDamage
Curious to know how do you know when you need a large size condom as oppose to a regular size?
Generally when the 'normal' one is way too constrictive - to the point of cutting off circulation.
 

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Ya i just had an incident with lifestyles......i guess im back to trogan


Anyone know if Durex ultra sens condoms are any good? (The $20 for 4 condoms)

No expense spared :)
 

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So, that's my question. I have sex and I always use condoms, and I have never had sex without one. But, it seems like I can't feel the sensations that well with a condom. I have only used Trojan-Enz condoms before so that's the only kind I have experience with. For the NON-VIRGINS out there that use condoms, which brand of condom have you used that leaves the most feeling, but is pretty safe against STD's and getting a girl pregnant? Or, are they all about the same?
 

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i use ultra think ones, or the fire sensation one... i can feel more with those i think.
 

ryannath

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livinlifehard, what the heck is fire sensation and how's it feel? Sounds like it would burn man. What brands are these? Trojan, Lifestyles, Durex, etc?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Gangster Of Love

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When I first started having sex, any condom felt good enough. Then I discovered Beyond Basics, regular with spermicide, and never have felt a better one. They have more of a light plastic feel as opposed to all the major brands like Trojan, Lifestyle, Durex, which feel more like rubber.
 

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durex ultrafine
 

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Trojans SUCK! They break all the time. They've broken more times than I can count! One time I was banging this girl doggystyle, I busted a nut pulled out and it was broken! I made her wash her c/nt in the bathtub thank god she wasn't preggy... she already had one kid ! LOL
 

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I really like Marquis condoms. They are bloody strong, with good sensitivty as well. I like their conforma range, more comfortable that their regular sizing, which tends to be suffocating.

Durex is decent enough, the only problem is you always know it's there. I'm yet to use a Durex rubber that has great sensitivity. Haven't used many of the specialist ranges though.

Vote up for Marquis.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Durex Extra Sensitive. For girls who demand a raincoat, it's the closest thing to condomless sex I've used and I've never had one break on me.
 

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ultra thin.
I think they go under the name of Bearback....I don't really look at the box.
 

ryannath

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Thanks for all the responses, but I have never heard of Bearback or Kimona. I should have been more clear. I meant which American condom feels the best. Anymore good ones?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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