Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Red chucks are way too bright. You can't see it on pictures but the color just explodes when you wear them with jeans, not really a good look.
 

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How about a pair of boat shoes? Those are pretty casual. Google "Zapatos Del Barcos Vans" and "Sperrys".
 

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I have three pairs of chucks: Red, Optical White and Black. I never wear anything else. Though I wear the red the least, as they don't go with as much.

In my opinion, red is good for wanting to stand out, but they have to go with what you're wearing. I wear a reasonable amount of red and blue (my name being Clark - lol) but if you don't then go with the other colour you chose out.

But good choice of brand. You can never go wrong with converse all-stars.
 

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DJ Axton said:
But good choice of brand. You can never go wrong with converse all-stars.
except when you're looking for durability.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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yeh i was thinking red was bright but it would look good with a casual jeans and shirt

the slateblue one is nice..but i feel like it's too close to navy, which i'm sick of seeing everyone wearing...and slate blue is too close to the color of most jeans i wear so it would kinda look strange

i think i'll get the red ones now..and the slate blue ones later, when my other shoes break down...and i think the black ones are pretty nice too'

ahh..not a big fan of boat shoes..there were some nice pumas too but nbone in my size at the moment..also tan jordan cue's are good but none in my size

i see your point captain, but i think i could use some bright shoes as most of my others are more blending..
 

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Jesus guys, you need to go on a forum to ask what kind of shoe i should buy?? geeze make your own choice, be yourself. Or better yet take a girl shopping and let her choose, just don't ask a bunch of guys on a dating forum lol
 

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Red is really bright and vibrant lol....get the blue. ^and i completely agree with analyzeit
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Analyzeit said:
Jesus guys, you need to go on a forum to ask what kind of shoe i should buy?? geeze make your own choice, be yourself. Or better yet take a girl shopping and let her choose, just don't ask a bunch of guys on a dating forum lol
I honestly don't think it's all that wrong like you guys make it seem like. Dude can't choose, and what's to know our opinion. Although maybe he should choose a different forum (a fashion forum maybe?) it's not a crime either.

But good luck to the OP. I'd pick a red pair of Vans Era's rather than Red Chucks. And like DJ Axton said wear a reasonable amount of blue and red. A simple look would look nice too, Red Era's, black or blue jeans, and a white v-neck.
 

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it's nice that you point out a my mistakes and a swear word, i have no idea what your trying to prove by that.

Maybe i did over react a little.

But you should be able to choose a shoe colour yourself, because it your own style.

I know if i wore the shoe's you've selected, i'd be disowned by my group of friends lol well not really but they'd get insulted. lots.

What i'm trying to say is, no one knows what else your going to wear with those shoes, what kind of shoe is popular where your at. Pretty much all the questions other then what colour shoe should i get. So you should really choose yourself. but you did and your only asking what the colour is so i shouldn't have really said anything.

And the red looks better :) lol
 
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