ddarkjedi
Don Juan
Just curious, do you donjuans social at, I tend to to go to the bars and nightclubs and house parties during my days when I was in college. Never attended frat or sorortity parties though. I heard those types of parties suck.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.