"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Which class would be better

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I move into my dorm tomorrow (college, finally), and have to pick my classes soon. For a PE credit they have both "weight training" and "weight training and conditioning." Can I really put on some muscle mass if I'm doing cardio (the class with conditioning) or should I stick to the one without the cardio etc and start a bulking season. I'm a measly 140, 5'8 in case it matters.

Thanks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Tell us how you want to be, how you want to look, and what your overall goal is. Sort out what you want for yourself, then post again :)
 

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Personally i'd do the conditioning, give me stamina and overall fitness as opposed to strength.
 

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Think about the type of physique your looking for. Watch the olympics and take a good look at the sprinters. Do you want to look like that? Now look at some of the bodybuilders. How about that? Ofcourse, you won't hit the type of body they have for years, but which would you rather work towards?
 

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Interesting you should say that, I've recently decided I want the kind of body the all-around gymnasts have [Male gymnastics of course... although a few weeks with a ***** would be awesome :p]

The only thing is, they always seem to have disproportionately huge biceps o_O
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by DJBen
Interesting you should say that, I've recently decided I want the kind of body the all-around gymnasts have [Male gymnastics of course... although a few weeks with a ***** would be awesome :p]

The only thing is, they always seem to have disproportionately huge biceps o_O
Yeah, those gymnasts are ripped. I wonder what their workout routines are like... or the sprinters routines for that matter. I am aiming for a sprinter-type build.
 

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Sprinters... Regular-ish BBing with plyometrics and wind sprints. Diet is of most importance. They Probably wouldnt bother with isolative movements, but then again, anyone with sense doesnt :D

I want to know about the gymnasts though, I dont actually think they do much weight training... it'd make having impeccable flexability a lot more challenging, fact O_O. I know the rings are damn challenging and would build mass, but crikey, some of those guys - mostly the asians - seem to have my ideal build.
 

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Hey benny... Weight training doesn't necessarily correlate with non-flexibility. Arnold states that in his BB encyclopedia, and has a few pictures of this dude with big ol' legs sitting on his knees and lying on the ground.

Arnold himself had flexibility and grace when he was mr. O, just watch some footage... Perhaps not gymnast style ;) but more than I have.
 

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I know semag :p

In pumping iron right at the start *chuckles* that amused me :D Where the camera pans back and he's stood there doing ballet :D

Also in 'The Unbelieveable' Mr Coleman shows some fairly good leg flexability. But generally speaking, although BB'ers are of a good flexibility, it's not anywhere near gymnast quality :)

I said it would make having near-spot-on flexibility a hell of a lot more difficult, which it would ;)

You've slowed down on the posting around here semag, dont say you're out living life a lot more :p
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You've slowed down on the posting around here semag, dont say you're out living life a lot more
LOL... no, you just steal everything I'd say before I get to say it ;)
 

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Lol - man, you missed out on a huge illusion of major social proof :)

I'm really turning into a keyboard jockey since my stomach problem, summer holiday, injured knee and a mother that needs attention all day. You'll get your place back in 2-3 weeks ;)
 
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