"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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which brand of "pea coat" would you choose?

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Cooper bros. made in NJ, USA

80% wool melton shell 32 oz wt wool with quilted liner, two hand warmer pockets, also makes uniforms for us military, dark navy

price: $119.00 total including shipping



Sterling Wear of Boston made in USA

also makes pea coats for USN

80% wool melton shell, satin yolk & sleeve, inside pocket, fleece lined body, extreme fitted fit, suggest go up one size for comfortable fit, 24 oz wt wool, two hand warmer pockets, Black

$119.00 total with shipping





SCHOTT BROS made in NYC, USA

80% wool melton shell, quilted liner, 32 oz weight wool, inside pocket, two hand warmer pockets, black

$119.00 total with shipping

which jacket would you buy?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'm a snug fit kind of guy (I'm skinny) so I'll go for the second one. :)

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The black one is too "guido" and of course that is not a clubbin jacket. I like the brown one. I'd get that one.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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there is maybe one chick on the planet who would spread for you in one but not the other. so pick the one you like best
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I found the 3rd one at a local dept store today, so I bought that one, the fit is superb! now all I need is a black navy watch cap to go with it :cool:




US 740N PEA JACKET made in usa by SCHOTT , NYC
 
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