"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Which Books Do You Recommend?

ALPHAROMEO

Banned
Joined
May 13, 2009
Messages
655
Reaction score
6
Location
france
seduction is more than a set of techniques
what you must achieve fiRST is self contentment or self realization

seduction is no substitute to boredom also

i highly recommend THE FEELING GOOD HANDBOOK by DR DAVID BURNS a book in which he tells you about outcome independence at work in lfe how to beat those feelings of despair b using the thrree column technique ( very esay to do ) how to fill YOUR DAY productively by planning your day hour by hour then you avoid boredom you feel more cretaive which contributes to your sense of self value
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

NeedToImprove

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 18, 2005
Messages
352
Reaction score
1
i recommend the art of seduction and the 48 laws of power both by robert greene and joost elfers
 

War Against Betaism

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 19, 2007
Messages
1,600
Reaction score
28
Location
California
As I do in almost every single one of my posts, I recommend the book How To Make Great Conversation And Small Talk by Sean McPheat.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Top