Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Yepp, Actually I was one of that guys. I'm Turkish and I was searching and reading too much but i noticed that I'm not doing anything.I wouldn't delve too deeply into a lot of material (you'll end up like some forum members here). What I mean is... don't get 'drunk' on information . Among this forum, we have a lot of members that aren't likely as successful with women as they claim. Instead, they give themselves away by quoting some cliché from pick up material. There are some legitimate members here, but there's also some that aren't.
This is a member that doesn't post often these days, but if you view his postings, I think that you'll pick up some practical information.
oldmanofthesea
www.sosuave.net
From what I can tell, you have a lot more knowledge about computers, internet security and things like this. Obviously, I don't. Thanks for fixing this.Try this:
That will lead you to his postings most recent first. You will need to figure out how to read his threads on your own.
I'm going to suggest a book that is going to sound really and I mean really outdated. I read this book about forty years ago and it sounded outdated even then. But you know something? As outdated as the book is, I greatly improved with my sales job and also increased my number of friendships and female opportunities.What can I read or What threads i should check?
You're already ahead of the game, my friend. When we are able to openly admit and recognize our (so-called) "flaws" it's a good sign. For starters, it's a sign of being comfortable with who you are. Everybody has something that they'd like to change (self included). My flaw? When I don't get enough sleep or have too much to drink, I develop a "lazy eye." This means that I'm unable to use direct eye contact with the ladies. Instead, I focus on the other better qualities that I have. Perhaps you still have some weight, but you can use eye contact to your advantage. In other words, we all have something that we'd like to change. The thing is focusing on what you got and using it to the maximum.I was the fat smart boy with glasses. Now I'm in university for medical school but still bad with people![]()
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
He has been a fantastic contributor over the years.Try this:
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oldmanofthesea
www.sosuave.net
That will lead you to his postings most recent first. You will need to figure out how to read his threads on your own.
Actually I read this book but I noticed that It's been a long time since I read itFrom what I can tell, you have a lot more knowledge about computers, internet security and things like this. Obviously, I don't. Thanks for fixing this.
I'm going to suggest a book that is going to sound really and I mean really outdated. I read this book about forty years ago and it sounded outdated even then. But you know something? As outdated as the book is, I greatly improved with my sales job and also increased my number of friendships and female opportunities.
Read this book
You're already ahead of the game, my friend. When we are able to openly admit and recognize our (so-called) "flaws" it's a good sign. For starters, it's a sign of being comfortable with who you are. Everybody has something that they'd like to change (self included). My flaw? When I don't get enough sleep or have too much to drink, I develop a "lazy eye." This means that I'm unable to use direct eye contact with the ladies. Instead, I focus on the other better qualities that I have. Perhaps you still have some weight, but you can use eye contact to your advantage. In other words, we all have something that we'd like to change. The thing is focusing on what you got and using it to the maximum.