"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Where's the best place for a 2nd year undergrad to work to meet people his age?

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LuckyBob

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Where is the best place to work when you're going to a COMMUNITY COLLEGE. I want to see where I can meet people my age, because I don't live in any dorms or apartments.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bible_Belt said:
I'd say restaurants and bars with a lot of female employees.
Would a waiter follow suit to your line of thought?
 

Warrior74

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I would say think for yourself and stop being lazy. Ask other people in your class what they do. Douchebag question to be honest.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mtlwlu

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Id say get involved with interests at your school, like co ed sports, or any sort of club that you like. Or just sit beside girls in class, and if theres a group project try and pick wisely and try and get in the group with the hottest girl or with the most. Mind you its easy for me because my major is 94% girls and the schools female to male ratio is 7-1 lol
 
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