A friend and I decided we were going to go look for girls. We went to a few stores, seeing as we have no mall, and we found few if any girls, and most were hanging off of guys. Maybe I'll just pick girls up at the gym. Any advice? (about any of it)
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
where'd all the good chicks go?
- Thread starter Eiljwa
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
navyseal2101
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Finally somebody who lives in a place like me. There are NO quality girls here, well a few but now they are mostly taken 
. Do what I do and game elsewhere. Do you have any friends that drive?
. Do what I do and game elsewhere. Do you have any friends that drive?thatguyjamalx
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LoL, Where the hell do you guys live?
Move to Sydney & come sarging with me.
Move to Sydney & come sarging with me.
jesusrules
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Dude I know how that feels. Just keep doing what your doing. =) they will come around.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
KontrollerX
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They're out there.
Unfortunately though most of them hide behind false fronts and make getting to know them more difficult than it has to be.
*Sigh*
Unfortunately though most of them hide behind false fronts and make getting to know them more difficult than it has to be.
*Sigh*
GaryUranga
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same for me?
its stupid sometimes youll see hot girls all over the place and you think there a lot then you dont see any for a long time, Im in uni for engineering and the chicks suck
its stupid sometimes youll see hot girls all over the place and you think there a lot then you dont see any for a long time, Im in uni for engineering and the chicks suck