"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

where would you do it?

D

dammit126

New Member
Joined
Jan 10, 2006
Messages
7
Reaction score
0
Hi,
Just wondering where would you guys have s e x, if u don't have a car (i normally ask my friends to drive when we go out to clubs and stuff), still living with ur parents (and so does the girl). Anyone suggested to the girl "hey, lets go to a motel/hotel?", cuz thats prolly the only place I can think of.

Thanks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

J

Jovan

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 12, 2006
Messages
46
Reaction score
1
The beach, school bathroom, friend's tree house etc...
 
D

dammit126

New Member
Joined
Jan 10, 2006
Messages
7
Reaction score
0
lol, @ friend's tree house. Thanks for ur reponses guys.

Treehouses aint that popular here in oz.
Beach, getting colder here in aus & might get arrested.
Yes I do need a car, but most of the time, we try to go into one car instead of bringing 4-5 cars to the city, cuz for 1 it's hard to find/expensive to park, only one guy needs to be sober, while the rest can drink ... responsibly.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top