"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Where were you and where you are now?

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nonameok

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I would like to hear stories about how you used to be, and what you done to improve yourself. Give us a snapshot of before and after.

My participation is not necessary as I'm not where I want to be in my love life.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Splendidostring

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Hola

Right now, I've got no girl or anything.

I just started school and I'm building a new social circle. I'm actually looking for a LTR.

Where I'm from : Recovering AFC, I'm still learning. I learned/watched stuff from DeAngelo mainly and a few others I can recall names. I applied in real life what I've learned and was able to become what I wanted, better in social situation including woman.
 
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FireOnTheMountain

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I'm 23, and I was a chump beyond all chumps. Last year I made a serious effort at improving and I did make some progress. I managed to get a girl's phone number (the first time in my life) and had some pretty good approaches in which I think getting the number would have been easy if I'd just asked.

Then I kind of got the wind taken out of my sails by one really disastrous approach, as well as getting very busy with my new job.


But now I've settled in to the job pretty well, and that bad approach is a distant memory and I'm getting ready to make another round of progress.
 
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MisterMcGee

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6 months ago I was an AFC but I was still a great funny charismatic dude so thank god my AFCness didn't shine through to the oneitis I had.
Now, I realize that being in the right mindset and having a great inner 'game' is awesome. It just feels good.

Also, KEEP THINGS LIGHT. Don't be dramatic, or make a big deal out of things, or expect anything from anyone. You don't need to do certain things to reach the end result, just go with the flow and chill.
 
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