I should have some free time this weekend, and was thinking of inviting a girl to hang out. Problem is I don't know where to take her. At first I was thinking about taking/teaching to play basketball since she said she doesn't really understand it. Lots of chances for kino, and I'm pretty good at it. But the weather isn't supposed to be the best this weekend, so if it turns out to be crap I was considering taking her to see Scary Movie 5. But the faults with that should be obvious. So where should I take her? Chilling at my place isn't an option.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Where to take her?
- Thread starter Eph
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
Up the azzEph said:
But really though, this shi is BASIC what would YOU do if it was raining and you couldnt stay home?
I have always ran into this problem as well. My hobbies include hiking, swimming, working out, shooting sports, kyaking, camping, fourwheeling, and working on my cars.
Hard to include a woman in any of that, as It's at least a half-day ordeal, I have and it has usually went well, but if she ain't enjoying it, now you have a total b!tch you hafta drag along with ya.
Btw, fawk going to the movies, unless its a drive-in and you've got room to play.
Hard to include a woman in any of that, as It's at least a half-day ordeal, I have and it has usually went well, but if she ain't enjoying it, now you have a total b!tch you hafta drag along with ya.
Btw, fawk going to the movies, unless its a drive-in and you've got room to play.
typical
Master Don Juan
My advice is to pickup playing pool (8 ball or 9 ball) or snooker. Best action dates ever. Only works if you're good at talking and you're good looking.
If you're a fat nerdy guy then go play wow and leave the chicks for us
If you're a fat nerdy guy then go play wow and leave the chicks for us
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Yes, go to a bar and play pool.
1) Drinks
2) Interactive
3) Fun
4) Easy opportunities to talk, kino
5) Stay for a while, then bounce to a new place
6) 2-3 bars, bite to eat, back to your place
1) Drinks
2) Interactive
3) Fun
4) Easy opportunities to talk, kino
5) Stay for a while, then bounce to a new place
6) 2-3 bars, bite to eat, back to your place
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.