I should have some free time this weekend, and was thinking of inviting a girl to hang out. Problem is I don't know where to take her. At first I was thinking about taking/teaching to play basketball since she said she doesn't really understand it. Lots of chances for kino, and I'm pretty good at it. But the weather isn't supposed to be the best this weekend, so if it turns out to be crap I was considering taking her to see Scary Movie 5. But the faults with that should be obvious. So where should I take her? Chilling at my place isn't an option.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Where to take her?
- Thread starter Eph
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
Up the azzEph said:
But really though, this shi is BASIC what would YOU do if it was raining and you couldnt stay home?
I have always ran into this problem as well. My hobbies include hiking, swimming, working out, shooting sports, kyaking, camping, fourwheeling, and working on my cars.
Hard to include a woman in any of that, as It's at least a half-day ordeal, I have and it has usually went well, but if she ain't enjoying it, now you have a total b!tch you hafta drag along with ya.
Btw, fawk going to the movies, unless its a drive-in and you've got room to play.
Hard to include a woman in any of that, as It's at least a half-day ordeal, I have and it has usually went well, but if she ain't enjoying it, now you have a total b!tch you hafta drag along with ya.
Btw, fawk going to the movies, unless its a drive-in and you've got room to play.
typical
Master Don Juan
My advice is to pickup playing pool (8 ball or 9 ball) or snooker. Best action dates ever. Only works if you're good at talking and you're good looking.
If you're a fat nerdy guy then go play wow and leave the chicks for us
If you're a fat nerdy guy then go play wow and leave the chicks for us
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Yes, go to a bar and play pool.
1) Drinks
2) Interactive
3) Fun
4) Easy opportunities to talk, kino
5) Stay for a while, then bounce to a new place
6) 2-3 bars, bite to eat, back to your place
1) Drinks
2) Interactive
3) Fun
4) Easy opportunities to talk, kino
5) Stay for a while, then bounce to a new place
6) 2-3 bars, bite to eat, back to your place
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.