"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Where to take her

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Himynamesjoe

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Ok...so I have organised to see a girl I know, just trying to build up the attraction side of things still. I've been a fair few months out of the 'dating game' and I cant think of anywhere to take this girl. I also need some sleep...but ill do that later =P

I want to keep it interesting/I just told her we should do something to take her mind of her studies, so really I just want to figure out somewhere fun to go. My problem is that Adelaide is too small. I'm thinking beach or mini-golf or something if the weather permits.

Any suggestions or advice about it all?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dam, if I could go to the beach I would, although I don't know how it feels to have the beach available for a get together.
 
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Beach would be good. Go somewhere where the two of you can chill out and get some conversation going. That's the important thing on a first date. The rest doesn't really matter.
 
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