"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Where to take her

Himynamesjoe

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Ok...so I have organised to see a girl I know, just trying to build up the attraction side of things still. I've been a fair few months out of the 'dating game' and I cant think of anywhere to take this girl. I also need some sleep...but ill do that later =P

I want to keep it interesting/I just told her we should do something to take her mind of her studies, so really I just want to figure out somewhere fun to go. My problem is that Adelaide is too small. I'm thinking beach or mini-golf or something if the weather permits.

Any suggestions or advice about it all?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Experience

Don Juan
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Dam, if I could go to the beach I would, although I don't know how it feels to have the beach available for a get together.
 

randalll

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Beach would be good. Go somewhere where the two of you can chill out and get some conversation going. That's the important thing on a first date. The rest doesn't really matter.
 
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