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Where to take a girl to set the right mood...

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So there's a girl who recently contacted me after not seeing her for awhile, and said she missed me, blah blah blah.

We've hung out a few times, but not for very long, and I've been sure to keep a sexual mood without making any real moves. I'm doing this in an attempt for her to come after me, and it's working a little. Now I'm ready to make a move, and we have a date Friday.

I'm a fvcking idiot when it comes to things like this, but hey that's why
I'm here. I need an idea of where to take her that would be fun, easy to interact with her physically and less conversation focused, and something original. Like not "hey let's go have dinner and see a movie."

I know you guys know better than this, any tips?
 

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Wine at your place.
 
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Ice skating, making an arse of yourself, falling down, laughing grabbing loads of touching/clutching
 
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You should go to one of those places where they let you ride go-karts. Those are fun! Then chill in your car and make a move. I've made most of my moves in my car ;)
 
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Any better ideas? I like the ice skating best so far, but I don't even know where to do that around here. Might look into that.

As for wine at my place, we're both 18 and we both live with our parents lol.

Go karts would be fun, but that's not interactive enough as far as one on one with her.
 

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Anywhere. You make a mood. I've had same day lays on taking a girl to the park. Yup. The fvcking park. Just talking and connecting and making out and then back to mine or hers. It's about who you are, not where you go. These days I'm broke and struggling...if a chic just can't have fun hanging out with me...she's worthless.
 
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Warrior74 said:
Anywhere. You make a mood. I've had same day lays on taking a girl to the park. Yup. The fvcking park. Just talking and connecting and making out and then back to mine or hers. It's about who you are, not where you go. These days I'm broke and struggling...if a chic just can't have fun hanging out with me...she's worthless.
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You definitely have the best answer, but I'm just trying to make it easier on myself without being cliche. I think I'm just gonna take her to this place downtown with food and music, take a walk around, there's a bowling alley within walking distance maybe that'd be fun to spontaneously do if we're having fun. I will have already made a move at this point of course, but when we're done I'll just suggest a movie at her house. I just hope everyone's asleep in her house by then!
 
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Setting the mood depends on the location and circumstances. As for a normal 'date', I usually do a stroll around town and go to the waterfront. This always sets the mood, and I know the area so I am comfortable there. If I am at one of the local bars, I have a great place I set the mood as soon as its on. Its a place @ the venue that says fire exit, but there is no alarm so they get excited. Leads right out of the venue where I take them home or wherever. Worked like a charm a bunch of times.

At the end of the day its about having fun. If you have fun, they have fun and take it from there.
 
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