gravityeyelids
Master Don Juan
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I'm starting to realize that this whole "rat race" is a trap for the most part. Go to school, get a job, prove yourself as a dedicated and honest employee and then very slowly work your way up the ladder and maintain a stable and steady source of income...progressively working harder and harder with very little increase in income while your expenses and taxes rise. The times are changing and this is no longer the way to become wealthy and stay wealthy.
I have always been one of those kids who sees the weaknesses in the system and exploits them. While my less intelligent friends were spending hours memorizing every detail in their classes and pouring over hours and hours of notes, I would pay careful attention to any hints the teachers gave about their exam-giving methods and EXACTLY what was going to be on the exams. I would take classes by the same teachers that i had had in previous so that i would know their methods already and know how they graded and what was important to them. Then, I would study ONLY exactly what was needed to do well on the exams and projects and get far better grades than other students, and use the hours of free time i gained to teach myself skills more relevant to my career.
Some will say: oh! but those kids have learned far more through their constant absorption of knowledge. Not so. While they were trying to cram countless details of a dry text book that would flutter out of their brain a mere couple weeks after, I was learning the things that I would actually remember from my classes, and all the while pursuing my own interests in things like philosophy, literature, music, filmmaking, finances, self-improvement, fitness and nutrition, etc. etc. and learning things that would both help me and that I would remember.
Believe me: I am a great lover of books and knowledge, and I try to fill myself with as much as possible. I'm not advocating against that. What i am advocating against is simply learning unnecessary things that you will forget simply because you are expected to in order to fulfill this high school --> college --> steady job wet dream that most parents have.
I am a college grad. I am finishing up a Master's Degree. I am not a college hater. I am all for it. But i am against the belief that college and dedication alone will make you successful. You have to think outside the box.
I believe that a large portion of succeeding in life is knowing how to play the system. There is no universal karma rewarding the hardest working person. Just because you bust your a$$ constantly is no guarantee that you will succeed. Don't misread me here. I'm not encouraging unethical or illegal behavior. I'm simply saying that those who are the smartest and most successful realize that EFFICIENCY is everything. I have seen my friends, who are very stubborn... raised on this "work ethic is everything, and if you are not motivated and busting your a$$ constantly, then you are a piece of sh!t and shouldnt live in MURICA!!!"
FVCK THAT. I want to work the least amount of time possible and make the most amount of money possible so that i can live my life and have time to cultivate my interests and improve myself in the ways that i want to improve myself in, not the ways that some employer thinks i should.
I am a lazy man. I go to the gym five times a week. I have a rigorous diet. I spend hours and hours pouring over books and material and building myself up to learn skills and knowledge that i want to learn to lead a happy life. But when it comes to my slightly above-minimum wage jobs... i could care less. I don't want to spend the rest of my life having precious hours sapped away doing something I dont enjoy.
TLDR: I am looking for any resources i can peruse that will help me begin to delve into finances and investment, and specifically any resources that are geared towards making money outside of the standard 40hrs/week, salary job, shoot-myself-in-the-head cubicle nonsense. I'm not looking for get rich quick schemes. I am willing to put in the work, especially if it will pay off in the long term.
I have always been one of those kids who sees the weaknesses in the system and exploits them. While my less intelligent friends were spending hours memorizing every detail in their classes and pouring over hours and hours of notes, I would pay careful attention to any hints the teachers gave about their exam-giving methods and EXACTLY what was going to be on the exams. I would take classes by the same teachers that i had had in previous so that i would know their methods already and know how they graded and what was important to them. Then, I would study ONLY exactly what was needed to do well on the exams and projects and get far better grades than other students, and use the hours of free time i gained to teach myself skills more relevant to my career.
Some will say: oh! but those kids have learned far more through their constant absorption of knowledge. Not so. While they were trying to cram countless details of a dry text book that would flutter out of their brain a mere couple weeks after, I was learning the things that I would actually remember from my classes, and all the while pursuing my own interests in things like philosophy, literature, music, filmmaking, finances, self-improvement, fitness and nutrition, etc. etc. and learning things that would both help me and that I would remember.
Believe me: I am a great lover of books and knowledge, and I try to fill myself with as much as possible. I'm not advocating against that. What i am advocating against is simply learning unnecessary things that you will forget simply because you are expected to in order to fulfill this high school --> college --> steady job wet dream that most parents have.
I am a college grad. I am finishing up a Master's Degree. I am not a college hater. I am all for it. But i am against the belief that college and dedication alone will make you successful. You have to think outside the box.
I believe that a large portion of succeeding in life is knowing how to play the system. There is no universal karma rewarding the hardest working person. Just because you bust your a$$ constantly is no guarantee that you will succeed. Don't misread me here. I'm not encouraging unethical or illegal behavior. I'm simply saying that those who are the smartest and most successful realize that EFFICIENCY is everything. I have seen my friends, who are very stubborn... raised on this "work ethic is everything, and if you are not motivated and busting your a$$ constantly, then you are a piece of sh!t and shouldnt live in MURICA!!!"
FVCK THAT. I want to work the least amount of time possible and make the most amount of money possible so that i can live my life and have time to cultivate my interests and improve myself in the ways that i want to improve myself in, not the ways that some employer thinks i should.
I am a lazy man. I go to the gym five times a week. I have a rigorous diet. I spend hours and hours pouring over books and material and building myself up to learn skills and knowledge that i want to learn to lead a happy life. But when it comes to my slightly above-minimum wage jobs... i could care less. I don't want to spend the rest of my life having precious hours sapped away doing something I dont enjoy.
TLDR: I am looking for any resources i can peruse that will help me begin to delve into finances and investment, and specifically any resources that are geared towards making money outside of the standard 40hrs/week, salary job, shoot-myself-in-the-head cubicle nonsense. I'm not looking for get rich quick schemes. I am willing to put in the work, especially if it will pay off in the long term.