"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Where to start my friends?

Colin O'Brien

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I've got these two friends. These are guys that I've known all throughout high school, since the first day back in 9th grade. They're really good guys, they're funny and I always have a good time when I hang out with them. The problem is, these guys are both immense, gaping AFCs, just like I was before I found this site. They're both going to college together next year, and I really want them to have the time of their lives, with women and otherwise, but the way they are now that's definitely not going to happen.

I need some advice on how to start them out with this site.
Guy #1 is a pretty big AFC.. he's a major pushover, hung up on one girl for all 4 years, the usual stuff. He actually ended up in a "relationship" (by that I mean someone who he tells his feelings to then they eat ice cream and watch soap operas at her house.. lol) with this girl but I can tell she wants out and is just waiting till she leaves for college so she doesn't hurt his feelings.

Guy #2 is pretty much way beyond AFC... he's a huge A/V nerd (nothing wrong with that at all! I envy his skills but the problem is that it's *all* he does ever), he needs some help in the social realm.. he comes across as sleazy and pervy.

The thing is, both of these guys have a ton of ambition, and are actually really good-looking but they don't seem to realize it (and they certainly don't act like it), So where do I start these guys off on? I don't want to scare them away or anything.. I was thinking some Pook. Ideas?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Daddy The Pimp

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Tell them like i did .

I told one of my friends that im frequenting a great forum and im reading some interesting books . Asked him if he had time and if he would like to read some great books .

Told him that these books and this site changed my life and my prespective for life .

And then , i gave him THE GAME (to introduce him to this world) than gave him DYD , MYSTERY METHOD videos , IN-FIELD Videos etc .

He kept asking for more and more . He lives on another country , but everytime he comes here , we wing together and he's great now . Try it this way .
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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With all the partys and drunk sex that goes around in college. They might have a better chance of getting laid then you think.
 

chubbycheeks720

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take them out and show them how to pick up girls; get a girls number and tell them "if you want a lot of *****, listen to what i f*cken tell you"
 
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