"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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'Where to Start' Guide

Ojete

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After reading a lot of posts by newbie people who come and don't know where to start i think it would be a very useful idea to make and post a guide, sticky, DJB post, whatever, where it is 'outlined' the DJ learning process. I know there is a DJ Bible reading guide and a newbie sticky but i mean in the whole aspect of the DJing progression. People come to the site and find lots and lots of information and don't know where to start, when they ask their responses are usually "go out, etc... read the bible or read posts". I think it would benefit all of us, expert and newbies equally by having a general base of procedures to capture the whole site information. Much stress for excessive replies may be avoided this way and there would not be so many confused newbies asking the same questions.

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If you don't get what i mean, take a look at this example:
http://www.fastseduction.com/youarenew/

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This is my opinion, thanks :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Do a search on "Boot Camp" and take it from there.
 
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