"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Where to sarge for the summer?

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Hey guys. I'm a long-time lurker, first-time poster here on SoSuave, and I love this site - I've learned a lot from it and made a huge improvement from my old AFC self (although I wouldn't consider myself a full-fledged DJ just yet :D).

My question today isn't about HOW to sarge but rather WHERE to sarge this summer. I've relied too much on my school and this library where lots of people go to research and study, and now I can't think of many places to go sarging (yes, I know that the library could still technically work since people go to summer school, but since I'm not taking summer school, it's like I'm there for the sole purpose of picking up girls... it just seems lame to me). In other words, I want to know where chicks tend to hang out during the summer, so that I can be there to get their numbers :up:.

Thanks in advance.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Go to any sort of public pool. Not only are there girls there, but they're also wearing bathing suits:rockon: !:p
 
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Mr_rogers said:
Go to any sort of public pool. Not only are there girls there, but they're also wearing bathing suits:rockon: !:p
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haha! yep...beach works good too! depends on where you live.
 
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Eh, dance clubs are nice but the best place to meet women by far that is available in most states is usually a mall. Sometimes it feels kinda weird trying to meet women with your buddies while they're shopping with their moms, but hey, sometimes you come out on the good end :D Also, you might just want to consider finding you a summer job at a movie theater or some type of place where you get to talk to girls a lot. Believe me, I've met tons of women when I first started working there!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Also, you might just want to consider finding you a summer job at a movie theater or some type of place where you get to talk to girls a lot. Believe me, I've met tons of women when I first started working there!
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Really? I can't imagine you'd have the time or freedom, since most girls would be there when the theatre is busy, and most positions at a movie theatre put you behind a counter.

Anyway, one method I find works fairly well is to hit on girls who are working. Obviously, if they're busy, you let them do their work, but suppose you're at Foot Locker or something and there's a HB working there. You ask her for some help, then strike up a conversation. If you sense she's interested, go for the number :up:.
 
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