Is there any guys out there that also work ridiculous works (like 12+ hours everyday)? If there is, where do you guys meet women? I only have 1 woman in my life right now and I have the feeling that it won't last long (don't want to jinx it, but I'm being realistic, though I will have fun for now).
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Where to meet women when you work 12 hours a day?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
chrisgoodrich25
Don Juan
I workl about 14 hours a day so I like to go to ***** houses..
naw just playing..
I don't do that anymore..
I like to mix it up...thursday nights the bowling ally
friday nights spectators (the bar accross the street..which I love for 2 reasons..1 I can get really hammered...and walk home and I can seem responcible and walk a chick home and bang her)
saturday (call me a nerd my favorite night) I go to barnes and noble (diferents thhhhrought the city so I don't see the same ones..) and get a cappacino and cheesecake..I can usually find a couple of broads there..
Also don't forget when your going about your daily tasks (laundry, shopping, banking)
One thing I also tell my friends is to stop going through drive throughs..Always go inside to eat You won't get much of a pick of women at a drive through window..
Also I've found the easiest way to break the ice at a grocerie store is when I turn onto an isle..if I see an attaractive female..I'll imdiatley ask her if she knows where an item is..usually shell tell you where..you then say I must ahve missed it and ask her to show you..she will..then its up to you to take the few seconds and sart a convo...
naw just playing..
I don't do that anymore..
I like to mix it up...thursday nights the bowling ally
friday nights spectators (the bar accross the street..which I love for 2 reasons..1 I can get really hammered...and walk home and I can seem responcible and walk a chick home and bang her)
saturday (call me a nerd my favorite night) I go to barnes and noble (diferents thhhhrought the city so I don't see the same ones..) and get a cappacino and cheesecake..I can usually find a couple of broads there..
Also don't forget when your going about your daily tasks (laundry, shopping, banking)
One thing I also tell my friends is to stop going through drive throughs..Always go inside to eat You won't get much of a pick of women at a drive through window..
Also I've found the easiest way to break the ice at a grocerie store is when I turn onto an isle..if I see an attaractive female..I'll imdiatley ask her if she knows where an item is..usually shell tell you where..you then say I must ahve missed it and ask her to show you..she will..then its up to you to take the few seconds and sart a convo...
GrimPhallic
Don Juan
I agree with Chris, you kind of just have to take it a day at a time and look for conversation with women in your everyday life. I work two jobs, one is salary full time so I end up at about 55 hrs a week, and the other is a part time job I work at nite, so I know what you are going through. I have no issues though, I still find time to go out to bars on the weekend 
Austin
Austin
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
Where ever you want to meet with women. You should not be on a womans schedual. They should be on your schedual... So, when you have time to have a date and you choose where. Thats when it happens!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I was more talking about where to meet women, not when to take them on a date. Right now the only places I meet women is at work (I work a part time job at a restaurant). The rest of my time is spent at school (doing a second degree) and spent building a consulting business. Don't got lots of time to spend at bars (when I do go it's more to hang with friends).I.A.F.Y.B. said: