“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Where to meet quality, single women in their early 20's when you work 60 hr weeks?

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Hey guys,
I work 60 hour weeks so during the week my life is pretty much working, sleeping and little bit of time for hobbies. I like to make music so when I do have time off I am at home jamming away.

This pretty much puts me in the position to only meet women on weekends. From my experience, most bar-rats and club girls are pretty low quality (no-sh!t). Where can I be meeting quality girls that haven't ridden the c0ck carousel?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You should invent a time machine and go back to 1950!
 
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Sofomore said:
Hey guys,
Where can I be meeting quality girls that haven't ridden the c0ck carousel?

Do you mean the ones that are still willing to be nasty wh0res? Not sure, but if you find out, let me know.

The only place to find "quality" women is in church. They aren't much fun, though.
 

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Grocery stores, starbucks, barnes and nobles (hah true story), mall, hell even at the bars and clubs there are woman who can be decent who work alot like you and enjoy getting out and relaxing from the work week. As far as the church goes I know people who go one day a week just to feel less guilt about all the bad **** they've done throughout the week so that's even skeptical. It's really all a hit and miss man, like so many other things in life.
 

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Quality women in church.........lol, yeah right. I've got an ex gf that is a church groupie. She has been married 3 times and only admits to 2 when you first meet her, cheater, game player. Totally into her looks....fake boobs, fake hair, tans, gym rat, and ohh yeah she's a looker. She's NPD and got an ego to cover up all her issues under all those sexy looks. I thought the same thing about those church girls.......but she sure gave me some new perspective! She's stuck on the cahk carousel and can't get off.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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AgentSmith said:
As far as the church goes I know people who go one day a week just to feel less guilt about all the bad **** they've done throughout the week so that's even skeptical. It's really all a hit and miss man, like so many other things in life.
Howiestern said:
Quality women in church.........lol, yeah right. I've got an ex gf that is a church groupie. She has been married 3 times and only admits to 2 when you first meet her, cheater, game player. Totally into her looks....fake boobs, fake hair, tans, gym rat, and ohh yeah she's a looker. She's NPD and got an ego to cover up all her issues under all those sexy looks. I thought the same thing about those church girls.......but she sure gave me some new perspective! She's stuck on the cahk carousel and can't get off.

True. Every woman in church isn't a saint. It's still your best bet, though.
 

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TyTe`EyEz said:
True. Every woman in church isn't a saint. It's still your best bet, though.
I wouldn't say best bet, the more someone go tot he church is pretty possible because she feels she did something so horrible then she need to save her soul, or something to say she is a good person(even though she is not).

note the more a person want to save his soul, she sure did something (and most of time keep doing it) who cursed her.
 
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Alvafe said:
I wouldn't say best bet, the more someone go tot he church is pretty possible because she feels she did something so horrible then she need to save her soul, or something to say she is a good person(even though she is not).

note the more a person want to save his soul, she sure did something (and most of time keep doing it) who cursed her.

I haven't been to church in 15 years. I wouldn't settle down with a woman that believed the bible. From what I have seen, though, church girls are more likely to have been raised with a traditional background; i.e. saving yourself for marriage, staying married for fear of sin, obeying your husband etc.

Again, obviously not all women in church are like this, but name me a better place to find a woman with a decent upbringing and sense of shame.
 

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TyTe`EyEz said:
I haven't been to church in 15 years. I wouldn't settle down with a woman that believed the bible. From what I have seen, though, church girls are more likely to have been raised with a traditional background; i.e. saving yourself for marriage, staying married for fear of sin, obeying your husband etc.

Again, obviously not all women in church are like this, but name me a better place to find a woman with a decent upbringing and sense of shame.

talking from experience from what I saw, I never really was anything to get close to church freaks but here have also some who pretty much force woman to marry as a virgin, so here is teh deal most of time or they marry in teh 16-20 year old, but note they never give they P**sy, just do An@l till tey marry, also the number of this kind of woman having afrairs is not that low, and the main complain is the sex is bad(since some of they preacher even tells then how to do it)
 

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Eh I've thought about going to church. But the thought of going just to meet a woman is weird.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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