"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Where to meet older, attractive women?
- Thread starter satelliteparties
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Buddha_Mind
Master Don Juan
I'd like to be a connoisseur at age 40 I have to agree with those here mentioning young = good and old = good...it's all about that connection and enjoying amidst the spectrum...Personally, I've enjoyed being with older women because I "learn" from them -- I know that's lame -- but it's true, their experience in some ways is a turn on for me...they force me to grow quickly...younger women are just damn sexy but can be very immature...I help them grow and they've "learned" from me...but yes they're all good
englishman
Master Don Juan
agreedsatelliteparties said:
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
In all fairness to the OP, by all means go after whomever you like. As a young man you should have no problems with many 30-somethings.Buddha_Mind said:Epsi and davewe, you guys give me hope for the future
Personally, I've enjoyed being with older women because I "learn" from them -- I know that's lame -- but it's true, their experience in some ways is a turn on for me...they force me to grow quickly...younger women are just damn sexy but can be very immature...I help them grow and they've "learned" from me...but yes they're all good
As you get older you will rediscover the joys of youth. No amount of experience can replace it. Their energy is palpable.
But again to each his own and I think it is unfair to psychoanalyze you.
Good luck!
u mad?englishman said:
awww - you and OP should fill out the "Butthurt Internet Complaint Form"
http://www.dodgeownerforums.com/smf/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=13524.0;attach=9074
englishman
Master Don Juan
Zunder said:
More big words from the wizard of oz
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
At the risk of being laughed off this forum,the oldest Girl I ever shvagged was 73....She was also one of my best....my youngest plate in the last seven years was 34 she was the worst...Some generalisations can be made giving a correllation between age and Libido,generally the older you are the lower the drive....however there are exceptions....another generalisation is that Women who work out are better value...The Old Chinese Sheilah I talked about,works out four times a week,dances four times a week also...she takes 17 different pills in the morning alone....Her body is that of a thirty year old athlete in good nick....her face is not badly wrinkled,she never goes in the Sun...if you visit her say once a fortnight she is always lubricated,and tight...specialising in Chinese Medicine,accupuncture and Massage,she is the most tactile person I have met....her blow jobs leave you tingling all next day...the only negatives...no sense of humour,not what you could call real communication skills,hair is dry and thinning....Pity that a Man cannot not live on head alone LOL.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
5string
Master Don Juan
Depends? :crackup:MatureDJ said:Good thing I just did my laundry, because after reading this, I had to change my underwear.