“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Where to Meet Girls in Netherlands?

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I don't have problem attracting girls when I am around them. When I'm in a party and through friends, get introduced to a girl, I can approach her to talk and after some conversation, build attraction and bang her. Problem is, I don't know anybody in Netherlands.

How can I build a social circle there? I am even thinking about moving there. Girls are pretty and everybody is very easy-going. I liked every Dutch person I ever met. Girls tend to be taller than usual but I had success with them (ONS) when vacationing in Asia and Latin America. Is the experience different attracting a Dutch girl in Netherlands?

Online dating is not a choice for me. I am hoping to find activities where I can join a group to make friends, be invited to social gatherings and from there, do my "thing". My question is, how?

Would love to hear some advice or experiences from guys hitting Dutch girls there. My target are girls from 20-30yo.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Since nobody else has commented, I'll at least point you in a direction.

I haven't been to the Netherlands since I was in high school, so take this with a grain of salt. That said, I think if you're 46, interested in women at least 15 years younger than you, you will have some difficulty unless you're massively overcompensating in other areas (looks, money).

Anyway, I would probably first suggest visiting Scheveningen. It's basically a massive seaside resort that's essentially a boardwalk on steroids. There's a huge beach, an enormous pier, and several storefronts along the way, including several discotheques for nightlife.

I'd probably not spend too much time in Amsterdam, since that's the place all the tourists know about, given the waterways and Red Light District.

As far as meeting people, everybody I ran into was very well-dressed, in great shape, and often rode around on bikes, so I'm sure there's some sort of club for that. Beyond that, you could probably meet a lot of people just by going to bars or walking around. When I visited, I only knew my cousins. They took me to a party, and I had so many people coming up to meet me and ask how I was enjoying my time there.

Extremely nice people. I'm assuming that hasn't changed too much.

I also don't know why you'd avoid the dating apps. Unless you're spending your entire day walking around talking to women, and your entire night going to bars for the same purpose, then I'd toss up some good pictures of yourself and see if you can get some "passive" interest.
 

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Since nobody else has commented, I'll at least point you in a direction.

I haven't been to the Netherlands since I was in high school, so take this with a grain of salt. That said, I think if you're 46, interested in women at least 15 years younger than you, you will have some difficulty unless you're massively overcompensating in other areas (looks, money).

Anyway, I would probably first suggest visiting Scheveningen. It's basically a massive seaside resort that's essentially a boardwalk on steroids. There's a huge beach, an enormous pier, and several storefronts along the way, including several discotheques for nightlife.

I'd probably not spend too much time in Amsterdam, since that's the place all the tourists know about, given the waterways and Red Light District.

As far as meeting people, everybody I ran into was very well-dressed, in great shape, and often rode around on bikes, so I'm sure there's some sort of club for that. Beyond that, you could probably meet a lot of people just by going to bars or walking around. When I visited, I only knew my cousins. They took me to a party, and I had so many people coming up to meet me and ask how I was enjoying my time there.

Extremely nice people. I'm assuming that hasn't changed too much.

I also don't know why you'd avoid the dating apps. Unless you're spending your entire day walking around talking to women, and your entire night going to bars for the same purpose, then I'd toss up some good pictures of yourself and see if you can get some "passive" interest.
In the Netherlands, the only folks that aren't super tall are the ethnics and the "Kamer te Huur" girls.
 
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