"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Where to meet cool guys?

Audiophile

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*To hang out with/become friends, not fvck.

I've been in college for nearly a year now, but I have yet to find any guys that I would deem as being "good friends". Sure I've met lots of people and I hang out with my friends all the time, but I haven't found one that has a similar mindset (DJ mindset pretty much).

I was thinking that the gym would be a good place to talk ****, since the guys who go to the gym are already there to improve themselves, etc. Clubs on campus are also an idea, but its too late in the year to join any new ones now (I would have earlier but I needed to focus on school).

Any advice guys?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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f283000

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PDubb75 said:
See if any guys on here are in your area
That is actually very good advice. I have become very good friends with all the guys I sarged with. Go to PUA forums advertise you're looking for sarge buddies, go approach some girls and make some new friends.

If you like poker you could always go to some poker games on the weekends. I made lots of friends hitting up house games.
 

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PDubb75 said:
See if any guys on here are in your area
Thanks for the tip! Most of the guys here that I've found are at least 6+ years older than me though. Toronto is a huge city, I'll see who else is from here. I'm not too big on the club scene though, if I do go to a club, it's to have fun, not to pick up women.
 

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Cr1msonKing said:
The majority of the guys that I've met on here are weird.
I can only imagine some dude showing up with a feathered hat and constantly trying to ****block you. What is worse is he would probably turn out to be 13 years old.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's hard when you're over the age of 25 or so to make new friends with a bunch of cool guys. I feel gay just giving advice.

Anyway, most people I know that have made a group of buddies at an advanced age tended to find them at work or at a local bar. Start there.
 

BigJimbo

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FairShake said:
It's hard when you're over the age of 25 or so to make new friends with a bunch of cool guys. I feel gay just giving advice.

Anyway, most people I know that have made a group of buddies at an advanced age tended to find them at work or at a local bar. Start there.
If you are 25 you are already old and creepy in America. Sorry, just a fact for straight males. Too bad you are not gay. Plenty of hot young dudes in America like men old enough to be their fathers. Which brings me to the need to post pictures of girls who don't mind dating men old enough to be Daddy if he has the right passport....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aBl4yN9Vs7I&feature=related
Just normal girls from social networking sites. Eh, Bulgaria is a s---hole for 98% of the folks. The rest (including male expats) live as kings. So quit crying. Too many places on the map where an American male can forever be as young and hot as he wants. Of course, Hollywood won't tell you about such places. That would destroy EVERY script written for the American sucker.
 

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Duh, activities? Join a club, sports, whatever, then you'll have plenty of friends. You want to meet guy-friends for talking? Sounds like you're trying to pick them up haha ;)
 

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well I've made a ton of guy friends through going to parties with girls and meeting their friend's boyfriends etc. I've recently become friends with 3 guys I've met through a couple girls I hang out with and have ended up partying and going out with them.
 
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