Where to go when we don't have our own homes

[Ray]

Hi there.

I have a date with a girl this saturday. I think I have her under control, and the date can end up very well, in my opinion. And I mean, really well.

The problem is that we both live with our parents. That means that we don't have any place to go if the thing goes well. Until now, I have never had this kind of problems, because I usually target foreing girls, so they have their own place, usually a shared flat which is enough. But now, I'm clueless.

It would be a real shame to not be able to do anything even if I have the opportunity, just because of lack of place.

First thing I thought was to get to a hotel, but I think that that kind of proposition can increase her ***** factor to infinite in a fraction of second, and ruin everything. Second thought was the car, but I don't really like it, I think it's kind of low level and not really comfortable. And it can affect her ***** factor too. So I don't know where else to go.

I'm spanish, 20 years old. She's 17. We are in Madrid.

Any advice on where to go? I'm clueless. Thanks!

 

[WC2]

You're 20 and you can't bring a girl back to your house?

Get a Hotel?
Hotels are for couples and hookers.

Relax. It's not like she isn't in the same situation.

Have a talk with your parents, tell them that you're surely old enough to have a girl over. Tell them you're responsible enough not to screw things up. If they don't give you a chance, then I imagine it's time to move out.

 

[Cruise]

I actually would've said a car, it IS romantic (for her) if you parked it on top of a hill where you could get some great scenery.

But if you must, the only other viable option would be in a dirty alley way where city rats dwell and the smell of fresh urine might be intoxicating enough to make your girl choke on her own vomit.

You should probably try your room.

Or, if you're both up to it... some public places which are usually hidden make for some amazing sex. Like an empty car space in an apartment facility, or an elevator, a staircase, even on a roof. Good luck.

 

[diplomatic_lies]

Elevator in an office building, at 6:30am. The building is just open, but you don't get many employees coming in.

 

[jimmyjack]

be confident

well i will say take her to the hotel for the weekend cause i think she will like it and don't be shy,feel free to say and do what ever u want but don't f**k up and be in control.

 

[LAWYER]

lol

 

[Ray]

You're 20 and you can't bring a girl back to your house?

Get a Hotel?
Hotels are for couples and hookers.

Relax. It's not like she isn't in the same situation.

Have a talk with your parents, tell them that you're surely old enough to have a girl over. Tell them you're responsible enough not to screw things up. If they don't give you a chance, then I imagine it's time to move out.

The reason to take her home with my parents here... no thanks. It's not that my parents won't allow me (my mother would be a bit concerned but my father would tell me "go for it man"), it's just that taking the girl to my room and thinking that my parents are in the next room, less than 5m away... it completely turns me off. Moreover, the girl would have to be very quiet... which is something difficult if the situation gets as I like it. And my bed has a horrible cracking noise when you move. No way.

About moving out... it is almost impossible in Spain. The average age of emancipation in Spain is around 32 years old. No kidding. It's not until that age when you can think about getting yourself mortgaged for 40 years to get a house because you at last have a decent job. The price of real state in Madrid is crazy. It's impossible for a 20 years old university student to think about living on his own. But let's not get out of topic.

I actually would've said a car, it IS romantic (for her) if you parked it on top of a hill where you could get some great scenery.

That could be an option, but I think that comes from American Graffitty-like movies with their Cadillacs In any case, I would have to find that kind of place in advance as I don't know where it could be. Although I was looking for a long and comfortable night, not for a quick banging...

Elevator in an office building, at 6:30am. The building is just open, but you don't get many employees coming in.

Man I'm not so quick to finish as to be able to do it in an elevator And I think she would be completely scared away, and/or very nervous as to really do or enjoy anything. Maybe more mature women would be excited by that, but she's 17 and she didn't look nor act as a *****, I think she's quite unexperienced still.

well i will say take her to the hotel for the weekend cause i think she will like it and don't be shy,feel free to say and do what ever u want but don't f**k up and be in control.

I think that "Let's stay the weekend at this hotel" is too much to ask at this stage. She doesn't even know my name! I met her last weekend, and she told me her name (along with a lot of other things) but, on my part, instead of telling her my name I told her that she'll earn that knowledge next time we meet. I have her completely under control, I'm fairly sure of that, but making such a proposition now would be suicidal in my opinion.



Thank you all for your suggestions. I think I'll try to make her come to a hotel with me if things goes well, there are quite very good hotels very close to the place in which we are going to meet and expend the evening. I'll just try to turn her on as much as I can, up to a point in which if I suggest the hotel it would sound like something that just came up to my mind because we both got so horny we really can'ts stand it any more. Let's hope it gets as good as that.

 

[DJDamage]

It's not that my parents won't allow me (my mother would be a bit concerned but my father would tell me "go for it man"), it's just that taking the girl to my room and thinking that my parents are in the next room, less than 5m away... it completely turns me off.

It sounds like your Dad is pretty cool about it. Tell him that you are bringing a girl home and that he should take your mom out to the movies for a few hours and hand him 20 bucks. He will understand.

 

[realsmoothie]

It sounds like your Dad is pretty cool about it. Tell him that you are bringing a girl home and that he should take your mom out to the movies for a few hours and hand him 20 bucks. He will understand.

LOL isn't it usually the other way around?

 

[DJDamage]

LOL isn't it usually the other way around?

hey he is a grown man now, times change.