"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Where to go/what to do for dates in small town.

Don Matt

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I've run into a sort of dilemma with a girl I've been dating recently, not enough variety in what we do together. I've been dating her longer then I have anyone before and its like on my list of places to go on dates I've checked everything off like 3 times.

We have a bowling alley, a movie theater, a park, and a roller skating rink, and thats about it lol. There aren't very many parties very often here either.

I'm at the point where I'm going to have to start getting imaginitive to keep things interesting, and I was wondering if anyone had any ideas for fun in a small town?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Noctlos

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You don't have to do something super organized, just go do something. Maybe go doorbell ditching or something.
 

Damian

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It doesn't matter where you go. It's what you do. Make things fun. Use all that creativity for ACTIVITY not LOCATION.

A real DJ makes a dating location out of any environment that he's in. If you're in a really small town, i'll bet there's some open fields or maybe a local forest trail around. It doesn't matter where you go...as long as you can have fun.

-Damian
 

Bling

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Rent a movie, go to a golfing range, go to a baseball hitting place, go walk in a park, go out to dinner
 
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