"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Where to go on first date..

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i planned out going to the beach but its gonna rain.. and i dont wanna ask her where to go and look like a whimp so i came here... help me out thx in advance
 

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Raining, eh? Well if she agreed to the beach, why not invite yourself to her house and watch a movie, or for coffee at Tim Hortons.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

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I always try to do a late lunch or catch a bite to eat in the early evening with a girl... IMO, a trip to the beach is too much of a commitment for a 1st, you want something you can bail out of it you want or need to

The added advantage of lunch or early evening is that you can extend it too with drinks if you're both enjoying yourself...
 
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