Where to find the motivation to keep growing when you’ve fully accepted yourself?

[RSDCharlie]

If you’re coming from a mindset of self acceptance, you face a paradoxical and conflicting mindset. That mindset is of self development and growth.

A lot of people come from a very negative and self defeating mindset. Now if you teach them the path of self acceptance, that can be really bad as now they’re happy doing nothing. If a person is overweight and they learn self acceptance, they just wont do anything as they are content being overweight.

Now there is another path you can take. You can reject self acceptance, be totally negative, and use that negativity as fuel to improve yourself. That works for a lot of people too.

But learning self acceptance is equally important. If you keep going through life with only a negative mindset, sooner or later the girl will see that and will leave you.

Self acceptance and Self Development should always go hand in hand.

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[Mike32ct]

I get torn between “F ‘em; I am what I am” and “I need to improve.”

I think you need both. The former is a defensive move. The latter is an offensive move.