Where to find non social media obsessed women?

[Isildur1]

Nowadays, everyone is glued to their phone, and even though being “addicted” to social media is a nuance, the majority of people use their social fingerprint for different reasons. The issue here is not the addiction itself, but the type of media they consume and whether it prevents them from completing their daily tasks.

On one hand, you have women who are very active online, in which they post frequently, chase engagement, and promote certain attitudes such as dating hacks, male-bashing, or toxic content. On the other hand, there are women who keep a lower profile with few posts, modest following, and use social media mostly for sharing moments through stories with friends, family, or things like travel, weddings, and hobbies.

If your goal is to connect with the second group, those women are usually best met through real world or online social circles like friends of friends, community events, professional networks, or shared-interest groups like sports, hobbies, volunteering, etc. These women tend to value authenticity and reputation within their circles more than online attention.

women who are interested in you will make time for you - what matters is a strong approach , consistency in approaching and a good mental attitude

social media is full of a lot of fluff but if done right can help reduce flakes combined with a good volume of approaches. Ignore the negative and see the good - even if its distracting. approaching more women really was what solved my dating problems - whether women get excessive attention from insta or not isn't something i have control of

 

[Isildur1]

Do you not find the women who are into social media extremely conformist and superficial? I suppose we can expand this to include men too.

They all use the same phrases from whatever reels they watch. They all seem to have the same thoughts. I've yet to meet a girl with over 50+ pictures lets say who wasnt hyper in tune to just parroting whatever trends she consumes.

Their creativity of expression seems completely dead, as if I can predict all of their words and thoughts before they even speak. Their political leanings, their economic inclinations, what music they listen to, etc.

well a lot of them were "Dependent" on social media because its linked to their lives or businesses , the women i met daygaming in london were often students who used Wechat ( huge amount of Asians and Asian Americans study in London and use that app) not only to upload photos but also to make/ receive payments / find resturants / watching online content etc. So when i got the same app they used it was a lot easier to hook them after the approach so uploading decent pictures on the app helped to build comfort-

i'd say out of every 100 i'd approach maybe 10-15 superficial? rest seemed like pretty decent people - again like anything social media is a tool that can be used for good and bad - for me personally it's helped but of course it needs a large amount of approaches (which is the key thing) to be effective to begin with .

And i'd say 95 percent of the women i tried closing from daygame had some means of social media so it makes sense to be prepared and have it imo.

Once you get a few rehooks from insta stories or women being impressed with your photos it does make it worth it - yes its superficial but most aspects of modern society are- it's worth having some degree of social proof of yourself to build up intrigue - after all im just a dude off the street , i need to be doing everything to convince her im a cool person and not a psycho murder- good photos can help with this

 

[DreamAgain]

well a lot of them were "Dependent" on social media because its linked to their lives or businesses , the women i met daygaming in london were often students who used Wechat ( huge amount of Asians and Asian Americans study in London and use that app) not only to upload photos but also to make/ receive payments / find resturants / watching online content etc. So when i got the same app they used it was a lot easier to hook them after the approach so uploading decent pictures on the app helped to build comfort-

i'd say out of every 100 i'd approach maybe 10-15 superficial? rest seemed like pretty decent people - again like anything social media is a tool that can be used for good and bad - for me personally it's helped but of course it needs a large amount of approaches (which is the key thing) to be effective to begin with .

And i'd say 95 percent of the women i tried closing from daygame had some means of social media so it makes sense to be prepared and have it imo.

Once you get a few rehooks from insta stories or women being impressed with your photos it does make it worth it - yes its superficial but most aspects of modern society are- it's worth having some degree of social proof of yourself to build up intrigue - after all im just a dude off the street , i need to be doing everything to convince her im a cool person and not a psycho murder- good photos can help with this

Yes I do agree with these points.

Also if you are dating asians I think there is a big difference, probably on the positive side compared to the white girls I've only dated/approached/swiped on.

White girls seem to exhibit these poor qualities much more.

 

[Clockwerk50]

women who are interested in you will make time for you - what matters is a strong approach , consistency in approaching and a good mental attitude

social media is full of a lot of fluff but if done right can help reduce flakes combined with a good volume of approaches. Ignore the negative and see the good - even if its distracting. approaching more women really was what solved my dating problems - whether women get excessive attention from insta or not isn't something i have control of

I think what OP is trying to say is that he doesn’t like the kind of content and information the women around him consume online, as well as their obsession with it. I guess, like you mentioned, that includes the attention they get from other men but at the same time, it does not.